New here need some advice....

What is the name of your state? Nevada

I have a real strange one here ladies and gentleman and any advice would be greatly appreicated. To make a long complicated story short, my husbands brother is recently divoriced, and staying at his mother's house for the time being, and in a ulgy, nasty, bitter court case with his Ex (the Physo!) over child custody. They have been through meadiation, evaluators, and the whole nine yards. So far they are all reccomending that the children live with my brother-in-law. The physo is loosing her battle and her montly income from child support for 3 kids over $1000 monthly , mainly because she has been caught in lies by the courts etc... so now she has invented this fantasy the my 14 yr old is sexually molesting her girls when he visits his grandmother!! She tells the girls on the phone things like, he's touching you right, and exactly when were you alone with him, well you get the point. I am so angry I want to go beat her ass! I know that wont solve anything but shes screwing up her kids just fine leave mine out of it! I know she is grasping at straws here, but I can imagine what they would put my son through as a result of her accusations. What one of my questions would be is do I have any legal recourse against her for making these accusations? Either through a family court or a civil court? Someone needs to stand up to her once and for all!

[stealth2]

And you know what she's saying to the girls on the phone...... how?

I guess that when the physo was talking to one of the girls the other day she was saying things like no he didnt and Mom thats not true, blah blah....and he took the phone and actually heard her saying things like, you want to come live with mommy dont you, and does he ever touch you "there" like she was trying to plant a seed in her head. They are 6 & 7yrs old and very confused. She is a master manulipator and changes the truth to suit her needs

[stealth2]

Well.... I hate to tell you but your guessing that Dad listened in isn't proof of anything. And hon - it's psycho, not physo.

No matter how you spell it she is crazy. I have seen first hand what she is capable of. There is no doubt that in my head this is true, I was just wondering what my recourse is instead of waiting

YOU can't do a damn thing except keep out of this. IF your son is being defamed then it's up to him to bring action against the woman.

All you are doing is acting like a mother. In this situation you are a legal stranger to ANY issue.

I am the ex- sister - in - law, this is my brother -in- laws EX wife accusing MY son of this.... my 14 year old son... She has pulled some crap in the past but this is the topper. Believe me I stay as far from her life as possible, but this is crossing the line..

No you did not confuse me. I know exactly who you are in this mess and my statement still stands. YOU have no legal standing to do anything at all except be a busybody.

Again, LEGALLY you have nothing to do or say in this situation.

And if you do try to march your son into court to charge this woman with defamation or slander, just where is your proof? Your ex brother-in-law SAID she said these things?

Do you want me to tell you now or later how fast the judge will kick your butt out of court?

Stay the hell out of this mess, keep your son away from this mess and let these two people either kill each other or resolve it. YOU have absolutely NO LEGAL STANDING TO DO ANYTHING!!!

now did you get it?

I guess its just my nature to protect my child especially against those kinds of accusations and slander!

BTW you didnt have to be so rude and base

And you don't have to be so dense. Or do you always walk around asking for advice then telling that person YOU know better?

Have a wonderful life in court. Because you keep that nose in other people's business and that's where you're headed.