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10-17-2003, 06:00 PM
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What is the name of your state? texas
I am the mother of 4 children. Last year I and my soon to be ex husband terminated our rights to the kids. My parents now have custody and are in the process of adopting them. I did not terminate because I wanted to be rid of my kids I did it because I felt it was in their best interest. There was alot of violence both mental and phiscal from my ex. I am now pregnant again, this is a good thing. I would like to know if the state can come in now and start trouble with the new baby. The father is not the same man as before. I live very close to my parents and I am still a big part of my childrens lifes and they still call me mom. When I am back on my feet the kids will come back to live with me. Do I have anything to worry about will the state atomatically try to take away this baby too? Florida is the state that removed the children from me.
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10-17-2003, 06:24 PM
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| | | Was it the state that removed the children from you?
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10-18-2003, 07:04 AM
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| | | Yes. It is possible that the state can obtain a temporary custody order without your knowledge & remove the baby from the hospital once it is born.
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10-18-2003, 10:27 AM
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| | | Re: new pregancy after perental rights terminated
[quote]Originally posted by andi1221
[b]What is the name of your state? texas
"Last year I and my soon to be ex husband terminated our rights to the kids."
MY RESPONSE: You make this out to sound like you "voluntarily" gave up your children . . .
"Florida is the state that removed the children from me."
MY RESPONSE: Then, we find out way at the bottom of your post that it was the State that TOOK AWAY your children.
You can't even tell the truth, or keep your story straight, lady!
You sound like a drug-infested old core of a skank!
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10-18-2003, 10:36 AM
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You have had 4 (FOUR) children removed from your care, and your parental rights terminated by the state; and yet you are pregnant AGAIN??? AND you think that you being pregnant AGAIN is a GOOD thing?
Legal advice would be wasted on you as you obviously are either plain stupid, selfish, or mentally incapacitated.
Anyone who disagrees is welcome to tell me how sad it is that I am so narrow minded**************.but that is just damned ridiculous! |
10-18-2003, 10:41 AM
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| | Quote: Originally posted by TLWE
You have had 4 (FOUR) children removed from your care, and your parental rights terminated by the state; and yet you are pregnant AGAIN??? AND you think that you being pregnant AGAIN is a GOOD thing?
Legal advice would be wasted on you as you obviously are either plain stupid, selfish, or mentally incapacitated.
Anyone who disagrees is welcome to tell me how sad it is that I am so narrow minded**************.but that is just damned ridiculous! |
My response:
I certainly can't, and won't, disagree with you at all.
I think this woman should do herself, and society, a favor by going to a doctor and having "it" sewn up so that she can't have sex anymore!
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10-18-2003, 10:57 AM
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| | | Too bad ALL parents don't have to pass a "Home Study" and criminal background check before making kids!
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10-18-2003, 03:44 PM
| | | | I did give custody to my parents at my own free will. This was just a custody issue. My ex was abusive therefore the state was involved in our lives. This is also the reason why he is my ex. Further more my tubes were tied and I became pregant again. This time it is with a decent man. This was the best way that I could ensure that if something did happen to me the children would not go with the man who hurt them. I am not a bad mother or a bad person!!! I did what I believe to have been best for my children. |
10-18-2003, 03:53 PM
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| | | And THAT is supposed to better**************you gave away 4 kids and are pregnant again? BTW....tubes tied, vasectomy, condoms, Depo shots, Norplant**************doesn't matter! There is ONLY one way to be 100% sure of not getting pregnant, it is a word called ABSTINENCE. And when you already have 4 kids that you can't or won't take care of......ABSTINENCE is the best birth control you can practice.
Apparently, the bio father's parental rights were terminated, or your parents could not have adopted them. That was enough to ensure that HE wouldn't get them if something happened to you. With his rights terminated, you could have kept your kids and named your parents as their guardians in the event you died or were incapacitated. Sorry**************.that excuse just doesn't wash. |
10-18-2003, 04:15 PM
| | | | He did not have his rights terminated by the state. Terminating mine at the same time that he did was the only way that he would do it too. The state did not remove them they just "strongly suggested" that is what I do. I placed them with my parents. When I saw that he was not ever going to get better I pursued the route of adoption. None of this is an excuse and I am certainly not a perfect person. I just do the best that I could. I do pay support to my parents and give the kids the extras that they need. I am still their mother. My parents refuse to change that. "We are Grandma and Grandpa!" I love my kids and I will continue too do anything for them! I am not a drug user Thank You very much!!! |
10-18-2003, 04:26 PM
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When I am back on my feet the kids will come back to live with me.
| ***You make no sense what so ever! You are trying to get back on your feet to get your kids back? And this includes having yet another child when you can't take care of the four you already had! Quote: |
Florida is the state that removed the children from me.
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The state did not remove them they just "strongly suggested" that is what I do.
| ***Again, you make no sense!!! Either the state took your kids or they didn't! Who in the world can keep up with this? |
10-18-2003, 04:49 PM
| | | | It sounds like you are having a bad time, and I am sorry for that.
However, since you already knew you could not take care of the four children you already had, why on Earth would you have any more children?
You say this man is great, and that is good. But why did you need to have another child? Please tell me this wasn't planned.
You know, I fully believe that not one mother in any state, or country for that matter, should be allowed to leave a hospital with out a complete psych evaluation. I think too many mothers are abusing, neglecting, and killing their children. It has to stop.
You know, I had my first daughter right after Senior year. I got pregnant again nine months after I had her, lost the baby, and took it as a blessing. Then, six months after that, I got pregnant again. I carried him to term. But I wised my butt up. How you ask? I STOPPED HAVING SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That way, I do not have to worry about getting knocked up again.
Honey, I am a single mother of two kids. I learned my lesson, three pregnancies later, and two children later, maybe you should take some advice. ABSTINENCE IS THE SAFEST AND MOST EFFECTIVE BIRTH CONTROL!
I am against abortion all together, but maybe give that baby to a family who has been trying for years to have kids. Some people were not meant to be parents, and others, who can not conceive, were supposed to raise the children of the parents who should not. Get it?
DO your unborn child a favor, give it up for adoption. Go, run, and find a family who will love this child. There are MANY parents waiting on edge to adopt, and they rightfully deserve it!
And leave the kids with your parents, and shape up. Take some time to yourself to get some money together, get a home for yourself, and oh, I don't know, STOP HAVING SEX!
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10-18-2003, 09:49 PM
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| | | tihs is where the edit feature is a pain in the arse, the OP originally stated not only was she back with the father of the four kids he is also the father of the one she is pregnant with.
This is a bullsh*& posting....
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10-18-2003, 10:12 PM
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| | | Re: new pregancy after perental rights terminated
Quote: Originally posted by andi1221
What is the name of your state? texas
I am the mother of 4 children. Last year I and my soon to be ex husband terminated our rights to the kids. My parents now have custody and are in the process of adopting them. I did not terminate because I wanted to be rid of my kids I did it because I felt it was in their best interest. There was alot of violence both mental and phiscal from my ex. I am now pregnant again, this is a good thing. I would like to know if the state can come in now and start trouble with the new baby. The father is not the same man as before. I live very close to my parents and I am still a big part of my childrens lifes and they still call me mom. When I am back on my feet the kids will come back to live with me. Do I have anything to worry about will the state atomatically try to take away this baby too? Florida is the state that removed the children from me. | How many times are you going to edit and change your story? | |
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