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Old 06-14-2007, 09:38 AM
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not divorced and living with someone else

What is the name of your state? n.y
i am a divorced woman going through a messy custody battle with my ex-husband (who is remarried) im currently living with a man that i been with for the last 2 years, who is not yet divorced from his wife or legaly seperated.. will his lack of action affect the out come of my custody case and or forensic evaluation that we have to go for ?
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Old 06-14-2007, 09:49 AM
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It could. ....
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Old 06-14-2007, 03:45 PM
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tell me more

i need more details, how?
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It could be brought up that you are living in an environment that is not in the best interest of the child. (for example) Adultery is not usually considered to be a positive thing.
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okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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Old 06-14-2007, 03:51 PM
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any suggestions ? the rock and this hard spot is getting bigger...
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Old 06-14-2007, 03:54 PM
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any suggestions ? the rock and this hard spot is getting bigger...
Is it? Is it really?

This is amazing.
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Old 06-14-2007, 03:55 PM
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Umm, break off the relationship with the married guy??? Just a thought.
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okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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Old 06-14-2007, 04:01 PM
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dont miss understand, they are seperated,but not on paper and not divorced. she is aware of our relationship and that we are living together..
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dont miss understand, they are seperated,but not on paper and not divorced. she is aware of our relationship and that we are living together..
I didn't misunderstand.
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Old 06-14-2007, 04:06 PM
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And again, you didn't ask what SHE thought of the relationship. For all anybody cares, she could be throwing you a house warming party and handing you birth control while you are on the way to the bedroom.

You asked if your relationship could be used against you in a custody hearing. The answer is yes, it could possibly be a valid point (and if your custody case is nasty, I suspect that he would be all over this).

GET RID OF MARRIED GUY.
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okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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Old 06-14-2007, 04:12 PM
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Point Noted ! Thanks
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Point Noted ! Thanks
ANYTHING WORTH ANYTHIG IN LIFE IS A TRADE OFF
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ANYTHING WORTH ANYTHIG IN LIFE IS A TRADE OFF
THANK YOU FOR YOUR ASTUTE OBSERVATION.



This is a LEGAL site. We're not here to discuss life theories.
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Old 06-14-2007, 04:44 PM
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What the PP are trying to say is IF you love your children and are REALLY interested in having custody of them, keep married guy out of your everyday life.

Why would you even risk it?
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Trade offs, doncha' know?
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okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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