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06-14-2007, 09:38 AM
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| | | not divorced and living with someone else
What is the name of your state? n.y
i am a divorced woman going through a messy custody battle with my ex-husband (who is remarried) im currently living with a man that i been with for the last 2 years, who is not yet divorced from his wife or legaly seperated.. will his lack of action affect the out come of my custody case and or forensic evaluation that we have to go for ? |
06-14-2007, 09:49 AM
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| | | It could. ....
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It almost never fails: OP asks for advice, gets the unvarnished truth from Ohiogal, OP gets in a snit and claims all the trouble has suddenly disappeared and the sun is shining once again.
This is a scientific phenomenon, and it should be called The OG Factor.
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06-14-2007, 03:45 PM
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i need more details, how? |
06-14-2007, 03:47 PM
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| | | It could be brought up that you are living in an environment that is not in the best interest of the child. (for example) Adultery is not usually considered to be a positive thing.
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| okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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06-14-2007, 03:51 PM
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| | any suggestions ? the rock and this hard spot is getting bigger...  |
06-14-2007, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by nawpaw  any suggestions ? the rock and this hard spot is getting bigger... | Is it? Is it really? 
This is amazing.
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06-14-2007, 03:55 PM
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| | | Umm, break off the relationship with the married guy??? Just a thought.
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Unless your child is Bobo The Two-Headed Dog-Boy at the county fair, you don't have to pay to see him.
| okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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06-14-2007, 04:01 PM
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| | | dont miss understand, they are seperated,but not on paper and not divorced. she is aware of our relationship and that we are living together.. |
06-14-2007, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted by nawpaw dont miss understand, they are seperated,but not on paper and not divorced. she is aware of our relationship and that we are living together.. | I didn't misunderstand.
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06-14-2007, 04:06 PM
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| | | And again, you didn't ask what SHE thought of the relationship. For all anybody cares, she could be throwing you a house warming party and handing you birth control while you are on the way to the bedroom.
You asked if your relationship could be used against you in a custody hearing. The answer is yes, it could possibly be a valid point (and if your custody case is nasty, I suspect that he would be all over this).
GET RID OF MARRIED GUY.
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| okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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06-14-2007, 04:12 PM
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| | | Point Noted ! Thanks |
06-14-2007, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted by nawpaw Point Noted ! Thanks | ANYTHING WORTH ANYTHIG IN LIFE IS A TRADE OFF |
06-14-2007, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by nawpaw ANYTHING WORTH ANYTHIG IN LIFE IS A TRADE OFF | THANK YOU FOR YOUR ASTUTE OBSERVATION. 
This is a LEGAL site. We're not here to discuss life theories.
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06-14-2007, 04:44 PM
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| | | What the PP are trying to say is IF you love your children and are REALLY interested in having custody of them, keep married guy out of your everyday life.
Why would you even risk it?
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06-14-2007, 04:47 PM
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| | Trade offs, doncha' know?
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| okay so basically I am supposed to look online at each particular state and then get their specific question answered?---kidyivau1
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