| Honey, YOU chose to make him this child's LEGAL father. He has every right to want to stay involved in his daughter's life. His relationship as father is not now disposable just like that. He has a right to file for shared custody or visitation, or even custody (not that it would be granted). But you can't legally COMMIT a man to fatherhood of a child, and then, when YOU no longer find it convenient, just decide he's no longer Dad - especially if you have had him filling the father role her whole life.
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Adoptive parents ARE "real" parents. Sharing genes is not what makes you a "parent"!
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