(I don't know if this is in the right section, so sorry if it's not)
Here's the situation: A close friend of mine (a legal adult in college, full USA citizen, home in washington state) has extremely an extremely controlling parent, one of which is an immigrant from a largely communist country (unnamed for anonymity) with extremely powerful high-up government connections back in that country.
My friend is very hard-working, and earned a very valuable full-ride scholarships to a good school in california (lets just say it's worth over half a million dollars). She's already attended this school for two years, and really wants to return again the upcoming year.
However, the controlling parent has essentially declared full control of her life, just recently. If she does not comply to all the parent's demands (which includes not attending this college), the parent (apparently) somehow has the power to call off the scholarship without her permission and enrollment, etc. This parent has also hinted at the ability to have her declared legally insane at the parent's whim, therefore putting her in the parent's "care" (no more free will for the rest of her life).
Needless to say, this is a terrifying situation. This parent tracks practically everything she does (access to her emails and bank accounts), which is why I'm posting here and not her.
What can be done? Particularly the situation at hand - is it possible for a parent to legally trash an adult child's scholarship? What actions can be taken to free her?
Here's the situation: A close friend of mine (a legal adult in college, full USA citizen, home in washington state) has extremely an extremely controlling parent, one of which is an immigrant from a largely communist country (unnamed for anonymity) with extremely powerful high-up government connections back in that country.
My friend is very hard-working, and earned a very valuable full-ride scholarships to a good school in california (lets just say it's worth over half a million dollars). She's already attended this school for two years, and really wants to return again the upcoming year.
However, the controlling parent has essentially declared full control of her life, just recently. If she does not comply to all the parent's demands (which includes not attending this college), the parent (apparently) somehow has the power to call off the scholarship without her permission and enrollment, etc. This parent has also hinted at the ability to have her declared legally insane at the parent's whim, therefore putting her in the parent's "care" (no more free will for the rest of her life).
Needless to say, this is a terrifying situation. This parent tracks practically everything she does (access to her emails and bank accounts), which is why I'm posting here and not her.
What can be done? Particularly the situation at hand - is it possible for a parent to legally trash an adult child's scholarship? What actions can be taken to free her?
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