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Old 10-31-2003, 02:27 PM
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Hi all,

My boyfriend and I are planning to get married in two years. He mentioned about having a pre-nuptial agreement. What will be the advantage and disadvantage of this? I'm 25 and he is 62 years old. He has a 16 year-old daughter and was married for 10 years.

Please advice.

Thanks.

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Old 10-31-2003, 02:36 PM
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'What will be the advantage and disadvantage of this?"
*** Pretty simple:
Advantages: You will have rights to only exactly what is noted in the pre-nup.
Disadvantages: You will have rights to only exactly what is noted in the pre-nup.
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Old 10-31-2003, 02:47 PM
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In my humble opinion ANYONE who has children from a prior relationship or significantly disproportionate assets SHOULD have a prenup. Especially in a marital property state.

My husband and I had a prenup, I owned the house before we married. It was the responsible thing to do to look our for prior kid's futures. WE have a wonderful marriage and are even happier together 8 years after we married than we were on our wedding day. And we have a 6 year old. But he has two grown kids and I have a grown son. A prenup makes sense.
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Old 10-31-2003, 03:37 PM
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TOP 10 Reasons Why Our Writer Wants To Marry A Really, Really, Really Old Guy - -

NUMBER 10: He's really, really rich and he's really, really stupid.

NUMBER 9: She thinks it's cute when he eats those peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and the jelly squirts out the spaces between his dentures.

NUMBER 8: The sex is amazing!

NUMBER 7: The way he sits behind his desk pantsless whenever he talks to her.

NUMBER 6: He looks so great in lipstick and a truss.

NUMBER 5: The communication is good, but it really, really hurts.

NUMBER 4: They have many things in common - - she has a vagina, and he has a penis. That's about it.

NUMBER 3: By marrying him, she hopes to have kids, ice cream, and find the name of her real father.

NUMBER 2: When he pops one up, he really pops one up!

AND NOW, the NUMBER ONE Reason Why Our Writer Wants To Marry A Really, Really, Really Old Guy - -

Instead of changing his bedpan in a nursing home, she may as well marry him and get some REAL money for doing it!

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LMAO!

I was starting to think I was the only one who noticed the "I'm 25 and he's 62"....
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LMAO!

I was starting to think I was the only one who noticed the "I'm 25 and he's 62"....
Nope - I noticed it, too...but was just absolutely disgusted....plus anything I wanted to say was not legal advice. ICK - who in the world would want to marry someone who is old enough to be their GRANDFATHER?!?!?! ick ick ick ick ick.
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Hey. I resemble that remark! My sweetheart is only a few years younger (57).


But we're BOTH (to quote IAAL) REALLY, really, really old. Better go put tonight's dinner in the blender and get the straws out.....
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who in the world would want to marry someone who is old enough to be their GRANDFATHER?!?!?!
Same reason Anna Nicole Smith married her "granddaddy".
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I understand he is going to give her an antique organ for her wedding present!!
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There are at least 17 lawsuits (!!) pending in various courts, including the US Supreme Court, asking if Obama is a natural born citizen (as req'd by Art II, Sec 1 of the US Constitution).

Why has he spent over $1.35M in legal fees to block disclosure... rather than spend $12 for a VALID birth cert to settle the matter? The 'certificate' he has presented doesn't qualify to get a drivers license, wouldn't allow a child to qualify for Little League, or for a real citizen to get a US passport!
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Old 10-31-2003, 09:17 PM
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Hello,

Thanks all for your time to post a feedback. I really appreciated it.

After saving all my life from an abusive partner and being penniless, should I marry this old, old guy?

BTW, I'm a nursing student. In 2 1/2 years, hopefully I will be able to finished my degree (BSN) and become self sufficient. I also have a darling 3 1/2 years old. Actually, most people that I know are telling me not to feel oblige to marry this man, but he is just super kind and generous to me and my daughter. He is a great man with a great personality. I felt emotionally, sexually, and financially secured with this man. He is physically healthy, etc. and oh my, he runs 3 miles everyday.

I think he'll live in another 30 years or so.

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Re: pre-nuptial agreement

[quote]Originally posted by younglady25


I felt emotionally, sexually, and financially secured with this man.


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My response:

. . . of course, not necessarily in that order.

And, I'm sure you do! Hell, he's Daddy!


So, you're going to be a nurse?

AND NOW, the NUMBER ONE Reason Why Our Writer Wants To Marry A Really, Really, Really Old Guy - -

Instead of changing his bedpan in a nursing home, she may as well marry him and get some REAL money for doing it!

IAAL
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Old 10-31-2003, 09:43 PM
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yes...your definitely right. $6,000 a month (extra) will go right to my pocket.
If we can keep the business within the family, not bad...isn't it.



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Old 10-31-2003, 09:47 PM
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Sugar Daddy should insist on a pre-nup.
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The Hawaiian Goddess of sex - -

"KmonIwannaleiya"

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Old 11-01-2003, 03:16 AM
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I think it make sense to have prenup to any partners who don't have the same amount of assets to protect children of their prior marriages.

Is there anything that I need to be aware of?

thanks.

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