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Old 05-10-2004, 01:38 PM
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Room Mate from the Abyss


What is the name of your state? Ohio


In March myself and 2 ladies (Donna, and Pat, these are made up names) moved into an apartment. The 2 ladies do not speak to each other, which is fine with me. But one night I was sleeping and Pat's cell phone rang. I didn't think anything of it, I just rolled over and went back to sleep. About 3:00AM I heard Pat talking and laughing really loud. I let this go on for about 10 minutes, before I got up and knocked on Pats door and asked her to keep down the noise. She then said ok and I didn't hear anything else form her that night.

Well the next day, I and Donna came home from work (we work in the same building). As I entered the house Pat was walking by me, I said Hi and she did not say anything. I asked her was something wrong, and she started cursing me out and saying that I was not her dad. That I did not have the right to tell her to be quiet in the middle of the night.
I stated that I did not tell her, I asked her. She then started calling me the MF word, I asked her not to talk to me like that, because I was not talking to her like that. She then went into her room, and shut the door. About 2 minutes later she came out again yelling saying I had no right to tell her that. Before I could say anything she went back in her room and closed the door. She came out again and started yelling telling me not to call her a F**k, I said I did not even say anything, and do not yell at me and run in your room, before I can say anything back. She went back into her room and closed the door and did not come back out that day (that I know of).

Now she does not talk to me, even if I say something to her, she will not speak. I informed her that we needed to talk, all 3 of us. She just walked by me and went out the door. Later when she returned I informed her again that all 3 of us needed to talk, she just walked by again and went into her room.

Sense we moved in together, Pat does not clean the bathroom, the kitchen, or the front room (she does not clean anything). She went out and bought her own dishes (which I do not mind). She keeps them in her room and she cleans them, and the stove off. But she will not mop or sweep the floor, the fridge, or windows. She takes a shower and she will clean the tub out but nothing else, she leaves the sink dirty with her make up, and she will use the last of the TP and not put out a new one. She leaves hair all over the floor, and in the sink, on the back of the toilet. She has a few friends come over (very seldom) and they sit in the front room, but she feels that she does not have to clean it.

Before we moved in, we all agreed that everything is split into 3 (33%, I pay the extra 1% because I make more money than they do). I and Donna went out and bought curtains and a carpet for the kitchen, and other things like TP, and paper towels. She did not pay her part for the curtains, stating that she does not sit in the front room. She has paid her part of the utilities on time, but when it comes to the rent she has been a day or two late. So I pay her part and then when she gives her part I just keep it, because it was already paid.

She pays her part of the phone bill, and there is a phone in everyone’s room but mine, I use my cell more than anything. So I put mine out in the front room so everyone can use it. If she gets a call while she is away or asleep I take a message and give it to her when she is around. If I or Pat is away she will tall them we are not here and hang up on the other party. She has hung up on my sons, and on Donna's Aunts. She will even get an attitude with them.

Well when we first thought about moving, I asked them to let me fill out an application, and if I was approved then they could (that way we would not lose money on application fees).

Well I was approved at some nice apartment’s homes, so I informed them and they both filled out one to. Well Pat was denied, and Donna was approved. Well we decided to move in and just let Pat stay without being on the lease.

So my questions are:

What do I have to do, to have her move out legally?
How would I go about doing this?
How much notice would I have to give?
And anything else that you would think I should know, or do?

Thank You
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