sandersdad
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
My son is 17. My girlfriends ex-husband has decided to cause drama and conflict in the home and has text messaged her and emailed her stating that he feels my son is mentally unstable and liable to cause harm to his son, all because my son owns firearms that he hunts with. I have full custody of my son. His mother made a series of poor decisions when he was 12, so I went to court and was awarded full custody. He's a quiet kid, always has been. Former baseball player, now very active in FFA. Is this years President of his FFA chapter. He's not an extrovert by any means, quiet and comfy in his own skin and space.
My girlfriend and her ex have been divorced since 2010. We met in November of 2011. Ever since he found out she had moved on and met someone new, he has attempted to rock the boat as often as he can. Constantly belittles her and harasses her via text and email. Always questions her parenting and even calls her a terrible mom. This coming from a father who chose to move out of state after their divorce, and only sees his son when it is convenient for him....due to a sales convention nearby or such. Anyways, my son and her son aren't best friends. They're 2 different kids. My son is a senior, quiet, into the outdoors stuff, FFA etc..., her son is very outgoing, has a ton of friends, kind of the popular crowd, plays sports etc., 2 very different kids. And her son is a sophmore. Her ex-husband has decided to pounce on this and state that there is turmoil in the house with the boys not talking or being friends, and that my son has mental issues due to his mother, and that being proficient in firearms and owning them, that he is obviously a danger to his son. Completely off the wall. Of course he is trying to push my buttons.
But, my main concern is.....he isn't going to provoke me to do anything illegal. I know he wants me to lose it and assault him. He has already stated if I ever touch him I'll go to jail because he won't fight back. And I have no intention of doing that. I just want to know whether he can legally talk in such a way about my son?? He has zero basis to say my son is mentally unstable and a danger to his son....or anyone for that matter. He is making all this up just to cause conflict. Oh, and he has also demanded a psych evaluation of my son. Can he talk about my son like this??? A grown man basically attacking the character of a 17 yr old boy.
My son is 17. My girlfriends ex-husband has decided to cause drama and conflict in the home and has text messaged her and emailed her stating that he feels my son is mentally unstable and liable to cause harm to his son, all because my son owns firearms that he hunts with. I have full custody of my son. His mother made a series of poor decisions when he was 12, so I went to court and was awarded full custody. He's a quiet kid, always has been. Former baseball player, now very active in FFA. Is this years President of his FFA chapter. He's not an extrovert by any means, quiet and comfy in his own skin and space.
My girlfriend and her ex have been divorced since 2010. We met in November of 2011. Ever since he found out she had moved on and met someone new, he has attempted to rock the boat as often as he can. Constantly belittles her and harasses her via text and email. Always questions her parenting and even calls her a terrible mom. This coming from a father who chose to move out of state after their divorce, and only sees his son when it is convenient for him....due to a sales convention nearby or such. Anyways, my son and her son aren't best friends. They're 2 different kids. My son is a senior, quiet, into the outdoors stuff, FFA etc..., her son is very outgoing, has a ton of friends, kind of the popular crowd, plays sports etc., 2 very different kids. And her son is a sophmore. Her ex-husband has decided to pounce on this and state that there is turmoil in the house with the boys not talking or being friends, and that my son has mental issues due to his mother, and that being proficient in firearms and owning them, that he is obviously a danger to his son. Completely off the wall. Of course he is trying to push my buttons.
But, my main concern is.....he isn't going to provoke me to do anything illegal. I know he wants me to lose it and assault him. He has already stated if I ever touch him I'll go to jail because he won't fight back. And I have no intention of doing that. I just want to know whether he can legally talk in such a way about my son?? He has zero basis to say my son is mentally unstable and a danger to his son....or anyone for that matter. He is making all this up just to cause conflict. Oh, and he has also demanded a psych evaluation of my son. Can he talk about my son like this??? A grown man basically attacking the character of a 17 yr old boy.