Taking Order of Protection off of.....

[smann7485]

Hi, my name is Stephanie. I recently went through some rough times. My son had a subdural hematoma in his head and the social workers are trying to say it was Shaken Baby Syndrome. They are trying to blame it on my previous roomate (Jason) and they had taken my son away from me for nearly 1 month. The only way I could get him back was to say that Cameron (my son) was considered a CINA, put an order of protection against Jason ,take parenting classes, watch a movie on Shaken Baby Syndrome and we have another court date 6 months from now. Now I did all that and got my son back. My question is, can I take the Order of Protection off of Jason (Since I know he didn't shake my son) with out the chance of my son getting taken away from me?? I feel like they are just using my son as bate. I mean, I am his mother, I feel that Jason is no threat to my son, so why are they able to control me like that? I am not sure if they are just saying that to make me cooperate, or if I actually can say that I am taking the order of protection off of Jason and there is nothing DSS can do about it. If you have any answers for me get back to me ASAP please

[email]Smann7485@yahoo.com[/email]

Thank you
Stephanie

[ceara19]

Originally Posted by smann7485

Hi, my name is Stephanie. I recently went through some rough times. My son had a subdural hematoma in his head and the social workers are trying to say it was Shaken Baby Syndrome. They are trying to blame it on my previous roomate (Jason) and they had taken my son away from me for nearly 1 month. The only way I could get him back was to say that Cameron (my son) was considered a CINA, put an order of protection against Jason ,take parenting classes, watch a movie on Shaken Baby Syndrome and we have another court date 6 months from now. Now I did all that and got my son back. My question is, can I take the Order of Protection off of Jason (Since I know he didn't shake my son) with out the chance of my son getting taken away from me?? I feel like they are just using my son as bate. I mean, I am his mother, I feel that Jason is no threat to my son, so why are they able to control me like that? I am not sure if they are just saying that to make me cooperate, or if I actually can say that I am taking the order of protection off of Jason and there is nothing DSS can do about it. If you have any answers for me get back to me ASAP please

[email]Smann7485@yahoo.com[/email]

Thank you
Stephanie

Yes, you are his mother and as his mother, you should do EVERYTHING in your power to keep your son safe and get him back home with you. In this case, it means doing what DSS tells you and keeping Jason away. You really don't need to be concerned about a roommate, a friend, a husban, a boyfriend, a parent or ANYONE else, when your CHILD is at stake. If you don't do what DSS orders, you face losing your child all together.

[baystategirl]

Originally Posted by smann7485

Hi, my name is Stephanie. I recently went through some rough times. My son had a subdural hematoma in his head and the social workers are trying to say it was Shaken Baby Syndrome. They are trying to blame it on my previous roomate (Jason) and they had taken my son away from me for nearly 1 month. The only way I could get him back was to say that Cameron (my son) was considered a CINA, put an order of protection against Jason ,take parenting classes, watch a movie on Shaken Baby Syndrome and we have another court date 6 months from now. Now I did all that and got my son back. My question is, can I take the Order of Protection off of Jason (Since I know he didn't shake my son) with out the chance of my son getting taken away from me?? I feel like they are just using my son as bate. I mean, I am his mother, I feel that Jason is no threat to my son, so why are they able to control me like that? I am not sure if they are just saying that to make me cooperate, or if I actually can say that I am taking the order of protection off of Jason and there is nothing DSS can do about it. If you have any answers for me get back to me ASAP please

[email]Smann7485@yahoo.com[/email]

Thank you
Stephanie

So ...How do you think that your son got the subdural hematoma??.Who else was around your child that could have injured your son?? And WHY is it so important to have Jason living with you? Is Jason your boyfriend??