scaredmom123
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What is the name of your state? OH
I was co-habitating for 7 years, but never married to an ex-boyfriend. I purchased a house during the relationship where I alone got the mortgage but had his name placed on the deed at the time of purchase. I have had the house for 3.5 years. He had bad credit and difficulty keeping a job. I know bad choice in men ... I'm like a magnet!
In January of this year he became physically abusive and I had to file a protection from abuse order. We each got attorneys and I was awarded the house since I could prove that I paid the majority for the house ... his contributions were considered like rent. He had only worked a total of 1 year in the past 3.5 years that I owned the home. In return he had asked for several of my belongings in the house. In my paperwork he had 45 days to file a quit claim deed to have his name removed from my deed. And I had agreed to give him the items he wanted. He was to contact me through a justice of the peace to retrieve the items. There was no time limit outlined in the agreement for the items.
It has been about 90 days. I do not know if he has completed the quit claim deed. The courthouse will not release that information over the phone and I have not been able to take a day off of work to drive the 30 miles to the courthouse due to this being a busy season at my job.
Now on to my questions:
When a quit claim deed is completed would I get something in the mail notifying me?
He has never contacted me to pick up the items he wanted. How long do I have to keep the items available for him? Do I have to make an attempt to get in contact with him regardless of the protection order?
If the quit claim deed has not been completed within the 45 days as outlined in the agreement signed by both of us plus our lawyers ... what would my next step be to get his name off of my deed? Do I have to spend more money on an attorney to take him back to court for contempt?
Both my daughter and myself would like to move from this house with the bad memories. I am under the impression that the quit claim deed must be completed before I put the house up for sale ... or he would have to agree to the sale and be at the closing. Can anyone confirm this?
Thanks for any help!
I was co-habitating for 7 years, but never married to an ex-boyfriend. I purchased a house during the relationship where I alone got the mortgage but had his name placed on the deed at the time of purchase. I have had the house for 3.5 years. He had bad credit and difficulty keeping a job. I know bad choice in men ... I'm like a magnet!
In January of this year he became physically abusive and I had to file a protection from abuse order. We each got attorneys and I was awarded the house since I could prove that I paid the majority for the house ... his contributions were considered like rent. He had only worked a total of 1 year in the past 3.5 years that I owned the home. In return he had asked for several of my belongings in the house. In my paperwork he had 45 days to file a quit claim deed to have his name removed from my deed. And I had agreed to give him the items he wanted. He was to contact me through a justice of the peace to retrieve the items. There was no time limit outlined in the agreement for the items.
It has been about 90 days. I do not know if he has completed the quit claim deed. The courthouse will not release that information over the phone and I have not been able to take a day off of work to drive the 30 miles to the courthouse due to this being a busy season at my job.
Now on to my questions:
When a quit claim deed is completed would I get something in the mail notifying me?
He has never contacted me to pick up the items he wanted. How long do I have to keep the items available for him? Do I have to make an attempt to get in contact with him regardless of the protection order?
If the quit claim deed has not been completed within the 45 days as outlined in the agreement signed by both of us plus our lawyers ... what would my next step be to get his name off of my deed? Do I have to spend more money on an attorney to take him back to court for contempt?
Both my daughter and myself would like to move from this house with the bad memories. I am under the impression that the quit claim deed must be completed before I put the house up for sale ... or he would have to agree to the sale and be at the closing. Can anyone confirm this?
Thanks for any help!