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Old 11-05-2005, 11:13 PM
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What is the name of your state?Oregon My husband had an affair with a women that he worked with after she chased him for awhile. She was supposedly on birth control. She go pregnant, and he asked her to get an abortion. She wouldn't and they broke things off. Now a year later, and I just found out, she is suing for child support. Do I have any rights to sue her, for using a married man as a sperm doner, and then going after us for money?
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Old 11-05-2005, 11:15 PM
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You have the right to a divorce.
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Old 11-05-2005, 11:19 PM
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You have the right to be a supportive wife and encourage your husband to be responsible for his actions, that means paying his child support and developing a relationship with his daughter, that would mean visitation. Congratulations, you are a stepmother.
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Old 11-05-2005, 11:21 PM
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What is the name of your state?Oregon My husband had an affair with a women that he worked with after she chased him for awhile. She was supposedly on birth control. She go pregnant, and he asked her to get an abortion. She wouldn't and they broke things off. Now a year later, and I just found out, she is suing for child support. Do I have any rights to sue her, for using a married man as a sperm doner, and then going after us for money?
You have got to either be the most ignorant woman I've ever met, or so ugly you're afraid to kick his ass to the curb because you can't find anyone else to mate with.
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Old 11-05-2005, 11:36 PM
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WOW!!!! Does your forehead hurt after that one? That was a pretty big forearm to the head.
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Old 11-06-2005, 02:21 AM
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hubby needs to stand up and be a man


why are you only blaming this woman? your husband is 50 percent to blame too.he could have said no.if paternity establishes hes the father, she wont be going after "us" for child support, she will be going after hubby for child support, and there wont be anything you can do about it.if yuor husband didnt want to have a baby with her, he shouldnt have slept with her,now that he has a child, he needs to take responsibilty.
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Old 11-06-2005, 04:40 AM
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why are you only blaming this woman? your husband is 50 percent to blame too.he could have said no.if paternity establishes hes the father, she wont be going after "us" for child support, she will be going after hubby for child support, and there wont be anything you can do about it.if yuor husband didnt want to have a baby with her, he shouldnt have slept with her,now that he has a child, he needs to take responsibilty.
Kelly? I was just wondering if you could give this forum, one solid reason why you still troll here.

I am also wondering why you have had so many screen names, and fabricated stories that you instill on this forum.

We know you are mental, but could you enlighten us, on what that mental illness is?

You just keep posting away your recorded message to posters, yet you left the forum "High and Dry", on why you need so much attention. You get caught,(So Easy By The Way), making up stories here, then when confronted and get busted, you still do not get it.

Did you really in your mind think we do not know who you are?

How many names and fabricated stories have you made up now?

You need mental health intervention, I hope all those walking dead people in your life see to that.

Did you get a rush from my response? It seems that is the only reason you are here. You love to be made out to look like an idiot don't you?
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Old 11-06-2005, 08:24 AM
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Do I have any rights to sue her, for using a married man as a sperm doner, and then going after us for money?
No, but ol'hubby has a right to not accept an offer of sex from other women, he has the right to take responsibility for his actions and stupidity, and he has the right to use a condom when he cheats on you.
You now have the right to get a job (or a better paying one) because hubby's paycheck is going to be a lot smaller for the next 18-21 years.

I hope the other woman sticks it to him good and well. You are a fool to stay with such a disgrace of a human being (he hasn't earned to be called a man, he's a mouse and you are choosing to live with that).
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