What are my rights?

What is the name of your state? nevada . I am 44, single fe. I have been with a man for 9+ yrs. He is 50, divorced twice, lost everything in those divorces, so very anti-marraige, was O.K. with me. The relationship was hard the whole 9 yrs., he is violent and abusive (very, imagine almost the worst ). For some reasons I am still here. My question is this...I met him, we got together soon. He had nothing after last divorce except a parcel of property with nothing at all on it. Well since then, he has recovered from debt excellently, property has gone up in value about 10 times, we built a home, we had to get utilities before that and every step of the way I have helped. Besides him doing this huge project for me, and I chased down all the opportunities to move forward, recently clueing him into refinancing at low interest, he is out of debt now. I have filled this house and property with belongings, my dogs of 12 yrs. are here, it's my home. Well, the relationship is very bad now. I think kind of a mid-life man thing has been happening now for awhile, I am in the middle of these projects- greenhouse, gardening and raising these 56 chikens so that he may have some kind of income later on, he drives 2+ hrs. aday to vegas to work and back. I am so tied to this, I just work part-time. He threatens me and believe me he isn't kidding. He goes back and forth with ordering me to leave with nothing, then back to talking like this is my home, which I feel it really is. I would like to be able to leave, but he is so mean and unreasonable, I don't even have a vehicle to take, and no way to go, not enough money. He really seems to be going mad and I really need advice or help to leave. Thankyou.

you can get a court order for him to leave not to come back becaseu of the abuse, if you feel like your life is in danger.

it is never a good thing to stay in an abusive realtionship , mental or physhical.

call the police tell them his threats and report all abuse, and most of all get him out of your life.

you can go to the distr. attny and get an order against him.

this is only advise you are the only one who can change your life, do it while you are still alive.

do you have no family that would help you?

The advice you got was great. Do it all. This guy sound horrible. Here are some contacts numbers for you. Please get help because 1) you could get seriously injured or killed, and
2) you're worth it.


NEVADA NETWORK AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
2100 Capurro Way, Suite E
Sparks, NV 89431
TOLL-FREE: 800-500-1556
Phone: 702-358-1171
FAX: 702-358-0546

Battle Mountain Lander County Committee Against Domestic Violence 702-635-2117
702-635-2500

Carson City Advocates to End Domestic Violence 702-883-7654
702-883-7654

Elko Committee Against Domestic Violence 702-738-6524
702-738-9454

Ely Support, Inc. Family Crisis Center 702-289-2270

Fallon Domestic Violence Intervention, Inc. 702-423-1313
702-423-1313
800-500-1556

Hawthorne Mineral County Advocates to End Domestic Violence 702-745-2472
702-745-2434

Las Vegas The Shade Tree 702-385-4596

Las Vegas Temporary Assistance for Domestic Crisis, Inc 702-368-1533
702-646-4891

Lovelock Pershing County Domestic Violence 702-273-7373

Minden Douglas County Family Support 702-782-7565
702-782-8692

Pioche Lincoln County Family Crisis Center 702-962-5888

Sparks Committee to Aid Abused Women 702-358-4150

Tonopah Intercept 702-482-2273

Winnemucca Committee Against Family Violence 702-623-3974
702-623-6429

Yerington Alternatives to Living in Violent Environments 702-463-5843
702-463-4009
800-465-4009




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