Your not go to get a dime.

[altheaharris]

What is the name of your state? Md

My Husdand is asking me to leave the house. He had the house before we got married. I'm cool with leaving, but he does want to give me anything. We have been together 5 years. He is also cheating and using crack. He refinanced the house so there will be nothing for me to get. he's buy things and making more delt. Is there anything I can do about this.

[BelizeBreeze]

Originally Posted by altheaharris

What is the name of your state? Md

My Husdand is asking me to leave the house. He had the house before we got married. I'm cool with leaving, but he does want to give me anything. We have been together 5 years. He is also cheating and using crack. He refinanced the house so there will be nothing for me to get. he's buy things and making more delt. Is there anything I can do about this.

and what makes you think you deserve anything? Are you a hooker who didn't get paid?

[rmet4nzkx]

Apparently you tried to ask this same quesiton 9-16-2005 but provided no facts.
[url]http://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=276322[/url]
Here is some information re marital property?
[url]http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/maryland-property-division.html[/url]
[url]http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/MD/marprop/use1.htm[/url]
The fact that it was refinanced or if you have children may make a difference.

[AHA]

Originally Posted by altheaharris

What is the name of your state? Md

My Husdand is asking me to leave the house. He had the house before we got married. I'm cool with leaving, but he does want to give me anything. We have been together 5 years. He is also cheating and using crack. He refinanced the house so there will be nothing for me to get. he's buy things and making more delt. Is there anything I can do about this.

If he doesn't have anything, there's nothing for you to get, is there?? Get a job and your own apartment, problem solved.

FYI, the title of your thread makes zero sense, you might want to freshen up your grammar for the job applications.

[nextwife]

Originally Posted by altheaharris

He had the house before we got married. I'm cool with leaving, but he does want to give me anything. We have been together 5 years. He is also cheating and using crack. He refinanced the house so there will be nothing for me to get. he's buy things and making more delt. Is there anything I can do about this.

You are entitled, certainly, to take what you brought to the marriage as yours. You and he are each entitled to a split of each other's retirement funds that ACCRUED DURING THE MARRIAGE. Also to split the marital debts.

When you say "he does not want me to have anything" do you mean:

of what was there when you moved in,
or of what you moved in when you and he got together,
or of what you and he bought together after the marriage?

Also, property acquired DURING the marriage will be shared.

As stated, if the real estate has no equity, it has nothing to share.

FYI: "your" is a possessive term, the correct word would be "you're", which is a contraction of "you are..."

[altheaharris]

BelizeBreeze – No I’m not a hooker. I’m just a wife watching her husband spend up all his, (mind or whoever’s) money on CRACK. Did you read that part?

Rmet4nzkx – Thanks for providing me some information without being a smart a**. Sorry about my grammar.

AHA – I have a job and I’m buying a house. Thanks anyway for your advice and forgive me for being a little upset when writing that post. “YOU’RE NOT GOING TO GET A DIME” Better. My concern is that I don’t end up paying for his debt.

Nextwife – Thanks for your information and the grammar tip.

[rmet4nzkx]

If you are still married and buying a house, that may also be an issue, that could be seen as marital property. You need an attorney.

[altheaharris]

I understand that it may be an issue, but I_m in a relationship that I can_t take anymore and need a place to live. I think I will have to take my chances.

Thanks

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by altheaharris

I understand that it may be an issue, but I_m in a relationship that I can_t take anymore and need a place to live. I think I will have to take my chances.

Thanks

That is exactly why you need an attorney!

Is there anything I can do about this.

You need an attorney.

Take the advice. It's not about what "you can't take anymore" (I said the same thing). Date you "vacate the marital home" has a legal implications for divorce. Hire an attorney and maintain the damages.

[altheaharris]

It's his home and he wants me to leave. He is making my life a living hell with the woman and the drugs. He comes and goes as he please's. He went away for the weekend and did not tell me anything. He spend 10,000. in a month. He just got 60,000. who knows how long that will last. As long as I don't try and get anything from him I think he will leave me alone. What do you think about prepaid lawyers? I'm wife number 5 so this is not new to him. I will go see an attorney.

Thanks

[AHA]

Originally Posted by altheaharris

I'm wife number 5

Next time you meet a "man" who has FOUR (anything but ONE is a BAD sign) failed marriages behind him, run the other way.

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by AHA

Next time you meet a "man" who has FOUR (anything but ONE is a BAD sign) failed marriages behind him, run the other way.

And if any of those wives are deceased and not divorced, run faster.

What do you think about prepaid lawyers?

I don't think I've heard that term, so I can't comment. If you go to the top tab "Home" and scroll down "legal topics" there is Family Law reference for general questions. And this is the site for learning about obtaining legal assistance. .
[url]http://family-law.freeadvice.com/divorce_law/[/url]

I hope it is helpful. Good luck. And do invest in a good pair of running shoes!!

[FarmerJ]

You have all the more reason to GO to the links up top and find a divorce atty
NOW even if there is nothing left of any so called marital assets . YOU do have to get the ball rolling so you dont get into debt or problems with credit getting so bad that it totally ruins you because of his drug use. INC any identity theft that occurs if his new THING decided to steal your identity and become you and wreck your credit. Go up top and find a divorce atty !!!!!