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NC My ex and I are hopefully about to agree to a 50/50 custody schedule. If I have to reduce my hours at work in order to have this schedule will the courts base CS on my new income? I work 24 hour shifts so I can't just put them in after school care. I will be reducing my hours to average...

I am in NC How bad will it look if dad stated in court (at least 3 or 4 times) that he would be willing to do an every other week schedule and then I request a settlement based on this and he does not agree? I think he is trying to back out now.

North Carolina I have court on Friday. My ex just emailed me about a meeting at our youngest sons school on Thursday in regards to the new school he will be attending next year. We live in different towns and this is the first I have heard about a new school. Oldest son wants to live...

North Carolina Friday will hopefully be our last day of our custody hearing. My parents are the last of my witnesses to testify (the rest of us testified back in January) The basis of my petition is education. Our oldest is failing classes and has been doing poorly in school for years. We...

I live in NC. Dad and I have a temporary order at this time which only covers a limited number of issues. Are medical expenses and other necessary expenses usually split 50/50? Dad makes approximately 75% of our combined income. Will he most likely be required to pay that percentage of...

I live in NC. First let me apologize if this does not show in paragraph form I am posting from my cell phone and it does no always post the way I have written it. At what point does a judge consider something status quo? My ex and I have 2 boys that we had 50/50 time with (without a court...

What is the name of your state? NC Can a temporary parenting plan be done in mediation with a clause that it will be reevaluated in one year?

What is the name of your state? NC I have posted some of my info previously. I am just wondering if a judge would put more weight on our childrens education versus my job. Dad has the boys during the week and they are with me Friday and Saturday night. We had 50/50 parenting time and the...

What is the name of your state? NC My ex and I are in the middle of a custody hearing. The boys are with him during the week and with me on the weekends. He doesn't think I should speak with the boys on his 'custodial day' He has told me that if I am going to call then to call at 6 pm...

What is the name of your state? NC First let me apologize if this does not break up into paragraphs. My laptop crashed and I am posting from a cell phone. Background: Childrens dad and I separated in Sept of 2000. We had a separation agreement that was notorized and recorded but was not...