Sorry, but I'm not even certain how these "conversations" work on this site. And rarely look at my own profile page.
I am more confused about your explanation of who is and isn't a beneficiary and what assets make up the estate than before. All I can say is that you hired the attorney and the attorney works for you. Begin acting like a boss. If you don't want the attorney to take calls from others or respond to their emails, tell the attorney that.