flamesofmoe
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio
I just found out that my Army recruiter ex-husband knocked up his mistress in January 2008. We didn't get divorced until September 2008 and he kept it hidden until now. We had no official separation agreement. He says that it wasn't adultery because we were separated. Which is funny, because that year he still claimed my son and myself on his tax return (and forged my signature and didn't give me my half of that or the stimulus check).
I have read that unless there's something else to go along with the adultery charges, it's usually not very severe punishment. So what can he look forward to? Considering he lied about having other kids, our taxes, and the adultery.
The Army command has been ridiculously unsupportive up here. In fact, after investigating his improper relations with DEPs they promoted him! Nothing about the adultery at all. I would leave this alone if he hadn't been harassing me, insulting me, and shoving his illegitimate child in my face. In fact, he says that I don't deserve so much money and he can't afford it with the new kid so we're going back to court. I know that holds no bearing in court (in fact, I will be getting more money for day care), but it still makes me mad!
So who do I contact about the adultery? I mean, can't ask for more proof than a baby.
I just found out that my Army recruiter ex-husband knocked up his mistress in January 2008. We didn't get divorced until September 2008 and he kept it hidden until now. We had no official separation agreement. He says that it wasn't adultery because we were separated. Which is funny, because that year he still claimed my son and myself on his tax return (and forged my signature and didn't give me my half of that or the stimulus check).
I have read that unless there's something else to go along with the adultery charges, it's usually not very severe punishment. So what can he look forward to? Considering he lied about having other kids, our taxes, and the adultery.
The Army command has been ridiculously unsupportive up here. In fact, after investigating his improper relations with DEPs they promoted him! Nothing about the adultery at all. I would leave this alone if he hadn't been harassing me, insulting me, and shoving his illegitimate child in my face. In fact, he says that I don't deserve so much money and he can't afford it with the new kid so we're going back to court. I know that holds no bearing in court (in fact, I will be getting more money for day care), but it still makes me mad!
So who do I contact about the adultery? I mean, can't ask for more proof than a baby.
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