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hi. i have been in the navy for 2 years and i am 5 months into a very unexpected pregnancy. i took the right messures but i guess it wasn't enough. i am now in a very difficult situation. when i am deployed 4 months after my baby is born i will have no one to leave my daughter to. my only family is my mother, who currently is working 2 jobs to have enough money just to support herself. she cannot take on a baby. the father and i are in contanct but he is also millitary and we are not stationed anywhere near eachother, not to mention he will be deplyed on and off durrning the next 2 years. his family is uninterested in having anything to do with the child because she will be half white. i have no babysitter "on call" for the duties that this entails. i talked to my command about my situation and they bluntly told me that they are not discharging me. i did not do this for a discharge. i didn't even ask for that since i dont know what i would do if i was discharged. how does the millitary work as a single parent? what would happen if i was dischared?
hi. i have been in the navy for 2 years and i am 5 months into a very unexpected pregnancy. i took the right messures but i guess it wasn't enough. i am now in a very difficult situation. when i am deployed 4 months after my baby is born i will have no one to leave my daughter to. my only family is my mother, who currently is working 2 jobs to have enough money just to support herself. she cannot take on a baby. the father and i are in contanct but he is also millitary and we are not stationed anywhere near eachother, not to mention he will be deplyed on and off durrning the next 2 years. his family is uninterested in having anything to do with the child because she will be half white. i have no babysitter "on call" for the duties that this entails. i talked to my command about my situation and they bluntly told me that they are not discharging me. i did not do this for a discharge. i didn't even ask for that since i dont know what i would do if i was discharged. how does the millitary work as a single parent? what would happen if i was dischared?