North Carolina/My ex has just reenlisted in the military. She has custody of our son. She has always made it difficult for me to have visitation. I just got served today that she must report to Eielson AFB in Alaska. She asks that in order for me to have an ongoing relationship with him that I be permitted 3 weeks in summer and up to one week visitation at winter and spring breaks. She also wants me to kick in half of transportation. That is not even standard visitation. She had family nearby where she is based now in Florida. He isn't even 5 years old. How do I find out if she got orders or asked for the transfer? I suspect the latter. She has always wanted me out of his life so she doesn't have to deal with me. I am remarried, she is not. She has men moving in and out of her home. I need information, please.