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[kb0319]

I had a sexual relationship with an enlisted marine over a year ago. It ended as quickly as it started. He decided to come clean about it to his CO recently. Now I'm worried about my commission. He's not telling them my name, but I'm still going crazy worried that I'm going to get called into my CO's office and asked about it.

Any ideas on my options?

 

[kb0319]

By the way, I'm a cadet.

 

[Just Blue]

By the way, I'm a cadet.

Is this a "don't ask don't tell" situation?

 

[kb0319]

No, not that it would matter. I'm a girl. The problem comes that I've already signed my contract for 5 years after commission from a service academy.

 

[Just Blue]

No, not that it would matter. I'm a girl. The problem comes that I've already signed my contract for 5 years after commission from a service academy.

The only thing I could advise is to discuss this with JAG. But please do not do so untill one of the Military Experts respond to your thread...OR you seek legal advice outside of JAG.

Good luck
Blue

 

[OHRoadwarrior]

No, not that it would matter. I'm a girl. The problem comes that I've already signed my contract for 5 years after commission from a service academy.

You are an outstanding example of honor and integrity in the officers corp.

 

[kb0319]

Thanks for the sarcasm. I would do anything to take back what happened. One of the biggest mistakes I've ever made.

But thanks for helping. Your comment made me feel so much better about the mistake I made.

 

[ahnvil]

Since, as a cadet, you in fact hold no rank and are junior to the most junior recruit. I wouldn't worry about it. You're a civilian until you give the oath of service and receive your commission. He can give your name and his command can't really do anything about it, signed contract or not.

As for the above comments, your situation is not unique. I've got plenty of notches in my midship belt. Attraction is what it is, you recognized that the relationship couldn't continue and took appropriate action.