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Old 06-14-2009, 09:16 PM
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My daughter's x husband

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
My daughter's soon to be x-husband was a deserter from the U.S. Army for a little over a year. They caught up with him and took him back to Fort Drum. He was there from April until this week. He was released. He told us that he got and "honorable discharge"! How could this possibly be true? Is there any way we can check?
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Old 06-14-2009, 09:43 PM
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
My daughter's soon to be x-husband was a deserter from the U.S. Army for a little over a year. They caught up with him and took him back to Fort Drum. He was there from April until this week. He was released. He told us that he got and "honorable discharge"! How could this possibly be true? Is there any way we can check?
ThanksWhat is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
It is more then likely not true. You can run a background check on him to see the type of discharge he received. You may also request to see his DD214, if he is telling the truth he should have no problem producing it.
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Old 06-14-2009, 10:14 PM
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He 100 % did not get a honorable discharge. Ask him to show you, that will clue you in.
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Old 06-16-2009, 09:16 PM
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Where can I get this information?

He, of course, told my daughter that he doesn't have his papers yet! Where or who can I call to get the correct information?
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Old 06-16-2009, 09:17 PM
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He, of course, told my daughter that he doesn't have his papers yet! Where or who can I call to get the correct information?
Why do you care?
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Old 06-16-2009, 09:25 PM
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This is my 3 grandchildren's father, that's WHY!
She is no longer receiving child support because he's a looser. He's now working at Walmart! Me and her father are helping support there children.
Any other QUESTIONS?
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Old 06-16-2009, 09:35 PM
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He will not be required to show you anything. His category of discharge is not pertinent information required for any of the reasons you listed for wanting to see his DD214.
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Old 06-17-2009, 08:15 PM
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I found out what he got

He received an OTH. This doesn't sound real good. I think he lied to my daughter. What does an OTH mean?
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Old 06-17-2009, 08:20 PM
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This is my 3 grandchildren's father, that's WHY!
She is no longer receiving child support because he's a looser. He's now working at Walmart! Me and her father are helping support there children.
Any other QUESTIONS?
That doesn't give you a legal or moral right to nose into his employment business. It's none of your business.

Frankly if the father were to come here and "complain" about you making inquiries into his military record, I would advise him to talk to a lawyer about a CRO. You are overstepping to the creepy point. Really.
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Old 06-17-2009, 08:32 PM
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[url=http://usmilitary.about.com/od/justicelawlegislation/l/aadischarge1.htm]Military Justice 101 - Part 3, Enlisted Administrative Separations[/url]
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"Wellll....I learned that Naked Mole Rats are WICKED naked!"

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Old 06-17-2009, 08:36 PM
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What if ANYTHING do you know about the Military? My son spent 3 tours in Iraq along with quite a few of my daughter's friends. Deserters are LOOSERS! I'm tired of his lies and he needs to support his children.
If you're going to be nasty, don't bother answering. I've seen you on other sights and you're always nasty.
Go Away!
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Old 06-17-2009, 08:38 PM
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What if ANYTHING do you know about the Military? My son spent 3 tours in Iraq along with quite a few of my daughter's friends. Deserters are LOOSERS! I'm tired of his lies and he needs to support his children.
If you're going to be nasty, don't bother answering. I've seen you on other sights and you're always nasty.
Go Away!
how on earth was that being nasty??? it's none of your business. that's a legal fact. and his discharge status has no bearing on paying support. he's working. mom can file for child support with the state and let them chase him down for that paycheck.
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Old 06-17-2009, 08:59 PM
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Same Question! What if anything do you know about the Military?
His discharge was available to my daughter (HIS WIFE). I've been working for the Dept of Army for 22 1/2 years. Do you know more then me? NO!!!!!!
Our Military men/woman deserve our utmost respect. They are fighting for our FREEDOM! When you join the Military, you sign an oath! If you can't handle it, shame on you. The AWOL/DESERTERS are showing nothing but complete disrespect for our men and woman that are fighting.
Has your son/daughter spent time in Iraq?
Didn't think so.
Our taxes pay for these loosers, keep that in mind!
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Same Question! What if anything do you know about the Military?
His discharge was available to my daughter (HIS WIFE). I've been working for the Dept of Army for 22 1/2 years. Do you know more then me? NO!!!!!!
Our Military men/woman deserve our utmost respect. They are fighting for our FREEDOM! When you join the Military, you sign an oath! If you can't handle it, shame on you. The AWOL/DESERTERS are showing nothing but complete disrespect for our men and woman that are fighting.
Has your son/daughter spent time in Iraq?
Didn't think so.
Our taxes pay for these loosers, keep that in mind!
Could you at least learn to spell? You need to butt out. Quite frankly you need to sit back, shut up and let your daughter be an adult.
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Old 06-17-2009, 09:17 PM
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Same Question! What if anything do you know about the Military?
His discharge was available to my daughter (HIS WIFE). I've been working for the Dept of Army for 22 1/2 years. Do you know more then me? NO!!!!!!
Our Military men/woman deserve our utmost respect. They are fighting for our FREEDOM! When you join the Military, you sign an oath! If you can't handle it, shame on you. The AWOL/DESERTERS are showing nothing but complete disrespect for our men and woman that are fighting.
Has your son/daughter spent time in Iraq?
Didn't think so.
Our taxes pay for these loosers, keep that in mind!
Lady, You seriously need mental help. This is no more your business than it is mine. This is between him and his MILITARY employer. Not you. Not his STBX. It is NONE of your business.

The FATHER of your grandchildren owes you no explanation of his activities...and that you seem to think he does just shows how over-involved you are in your daughters business. A CRO should be placed against you and you should not be around the grandchildren, as you display such incredible hatred of their father to the degree that you post a danger to their mental wellbeing.

This is a legal site. If you would like to rant about the FATHER of your GRANDCHILDREN perhaps you should go to :

trashygrannieswhohatesil's.com
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"Would you share with me an interesting fact?"
"Wellll....I learned that Naked Mole Rats are WICKED naked!"

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