| need help!!!!!!! Hello My name is Mandi and I have some question that i need help with, Some helpful answers would be wonderful, My Husband just came back early from Iraq he was haveing some problems, Well we have been haveing some problems our self's since he has been back and well i was spending alot of time with my friends, I felt like he was a little to controlling with my life, i mean i have the cleanest house on post, i almost always have dinner ready and my little girl has the best grades in school ever, and at night if i want to have my friends over i think i own it to myself to sit back and chill with them. My one Girl Friends Husband is in the same unit and there First deploment and well my husband and i said we would look out for her i mean she has no firends and we are in germany so we both don't have our familys here so we have eachother, Well my husband would have anything to do with that! so me and a few friends have been hanging out alot and well my Husband Told me he didn't love me anymore and wanted a Divorce and we have been together for 10 years and well i did what any UPSET women who just got told ( i want a divorce ) i ran out of the house to go hang out, that night i was so upset and confused i was hanging out with my guy friend and of course i told my husband were i would be cuz i have nothing to hide so i cried on him and cried so much i fell asleep, in his room, was it wrong that i ran to another man YES, But i had no one and he's been there for me, Was it wrong that i Fell asleep oh god Yes but it wasn't anything but sleeping and my husband called the MPs they came to my friends room THE ONLY thing that was seen it his shirt was off and we were sleeping and We did not have sex, but now Everyone thinks we did. and My poor Friend has all this Crap going against him, I want to save his rank, and his pay grade, and i want to find away to get the 45 droped, HOW DO I DO THAT ?????????? All he did was be there for me, and I got him into so much **** and it is my fault and i wanna fix it, i don't care what i have to do, i need help i need some advice how can i help him, Please some one, There not even letting him speech you know, And it was nothing, how do i prove it??????????? |