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And then they, what, held a gun to your head to make you sign a contract where YOU knew going in that you could not afford it?
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Of course not, I wouldn't have signed it if that's all they did.
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Time for a reality check you made mistakes and now you think they will magically go away
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Yes, that I made mistakes is reality.
That I think they will magically go away, however is NOT.
If I thought that, I wouldn't be this worried and scared
and unable to sleep (hence the time of my original post)
nor would I be here seeking a way to fix them, or delay
the foreclosure until I can reinstate it.
What did I say to give you THAT impression?
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can you afford the payments even if the loan is reinstated?
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Yes! I'm sorry, I meant to mention that and thought
that I did. After just rereading my post, it's obvious to
me how tired I was and how unclear my thinking was
while writing it, eventho I still haven't slept yet.
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So tell us aside from giving you what you wanted
and when you WANTED it
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We got neither WHAT we wanted, and certainly
not WHEN we wanted it! Where are you GETTING
this stuff from!? Please cut and paste what I said
that could possibly give you that idea, showing
me and everyone who reads this, that you're NOT
just a JERK.
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Fooling around trying to find solutions may well lose the home for you,
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Sir/madame, I'll waste no more of my time on
someone who considers trying to find solutions
to serious problems "Fooling around"!
NOW BE GONE! Before you embarrass yourself further.
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No offense, but you were real detailed in telling us
what "they" did wrong.
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You're right. I see that in rereading my post. However
that was not my intention. My intention was to ask
questions that might stop or delay my family and
myself from becoming homeless before I receive
back payments due me from Social Security disability
that will allow me to reinstate the loan.
I was trusting and ignorant and as a "first timer" didn't
do enough home work.
Especially in the area of all the different ways lenders
can take advantage of uneducated buyers. But my biggest
mistake was being unaware of how elaborate, sophisticated
and fool proof "Con games" can be. It was over a year
before I even KNEW what had happened. And then, only
realized it while complaining to the Vice President of the
mortgage broker firm about what his employees had done
at the branch where we did business. I only got a few
sentences out before he immediately reconized it as a
well known scam and cut me off saying:
"You're not going
to try to tell me MY MEN pulled that old "Put 'em in the hole
so they CAN'T say no to the loan" scam on you, are you?"
I was speechless for several moments when I realized
what he had just said described EXACTLY what they
had done. I later found out that thousands of people
have fall prey to that scam, it's nearly infallible on first
time buyers and and a large percentage of those people
are STILL unaware of what happened.
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Did you not agree that is they gave you the money, you would pay it back by making regular payments? Did you do that?
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Yes, I agreed to make the payments.
Yes, eventho after we both became disabled, we had to
sell our personal belongings month after month until we had
nothing of any value left, we DID make the payments
for almost six years.
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Do you still owe the money?
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Yes, and now that we both get Social Security checks every
month we are ABLE to and WERE making the payments
right on time each month. However we were UNable to
pay the several months that we missed before being
approved for disability. But the bank allowed us to
continuing making until I told them it was just about
time for me to get my disability back payment check
which would be several thousand dollars, and I would
be able to bring our loan current, and with us both having
guaranteed steady incomes should never have any
problem making the payments again. That's when they
suddenly sent my payment back to me saying it couldn't
be posted to our account because it was the wrong
amount, saying it had to be for the total amount of
of payments we had missed. A month later we got the
foreclosure letter.
If it makes no sense to you why they would DO
that, it's because you believe they don't WANT to take
our home. If you look at from the point of view
that the bank WANTS to take our home, you'll see
it makes PERFECT sense and all the pieces fall neatly
into place.
I've been up all night, looking for info and begging
for help, I'm exhausted. So, if all the
"Holy-than-thou's" sitting out have finished judging
me and STILL think I'm just a "dead beat" looking for a
free ride, so be it.
Maybe someone who doesn't need to judge me first
or jumps to conclusions before getting facts will
help me.
But right now, I've got to get some sleep.
I'm too tired to even proof read or spell check this, deal with it.