Geminigal, You'd think from these replies that these people have never had children. Let me ask you a couple of questions. 1. Have you and the neighbor even been uncivil? If so, that explains a lot. If not, then her reaction is curious at best. 2. Is there any health reason that the neighbor wouldn't answer you? Hard of hearing, mental condition, etc.? 3. Have these toys caused any damage to flowers, shrubs, etc.? Is there any reason you couldn't go ring the neighbors doorbell and aplogize for your daughter just being a naturally curious and playful two-year child with some home made cupcakes that she helped you make? This would be a good time to exchange phone numbers and open up communications. You appear to have older children. Does your neighbor have kids, too? Are there rivalries? Different religious backgrounds? Racial animosities? Certainly, somewhere in the mix there is an expectation not being met and it may just be a good idea to try and learn what the expectations are on her side of the fence (and whether they are reasonable expectations). If they're reasonable, do your best to be a good neighbor. Good luck with the situation.