grannynancy
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? South Carolina
I have more vehicles than the HOA "likes" but there are no specific contraints in the covenants (there are 6 at my 5 bedroom home, sometimes 7). They are now asking me for "proof of ownership" for the vehicles in my house, two of which belong to live -in household caregivers for my invalid (sick) mother and a third to a part time caregiver. Their cars are older, and ugly but are functional and operate properly and are properly licensed. I am doing everything I can to ameliorate the situation but it is what it is.
As best I can tell, there is nothing in either my covenants or the county laws that prohibit unrelated individiuals from sharing the same home. When I bought the house I was specific that we would have live-in care but it did not become an issue until one of them got a new car and my daughter moved back in temporarily which increased the number of cars at our home.
We DO have enough vehicles we have to double park in the driveway but it is not a violation to do so. I am also being told my mother's wheelchair van is a "commercial vehicle" (it is a Dodge RAM van that was previously used by a transport company but has no lettering, and is just a normal full size handicap van) and that it must be removed.
They have sent me and other neighbors countless letters for mild violations yet every last member of the board has blatantly violated the same covenants and new construction has been recently allowed that is in clear violation.
My past experiences with these people are they are very rude (I guess you will have to take me at face value on that statement, but it is true). We are not the only ones facing inconsistent application of the "rules" and free lance interpretations by the board which allow the people they choose to violate covenants while creating new ad hoc standards for other people.
Comments on the following:
I feel that I would be better off to ignore the letters until they come to me with some specified statement of action on their part or the request is sent by their attorney.
Are there any specific requirements concerning unrelated people living in the same house in SC - We are family except for the two paid live in caregivers. My mother "does" have a right to have people in our home to provide for her physical care, doesn't she? She "does" have a right to own a wheelchair van at her residence, too, doesn't she? FWIW, there are 6 people living in a 5 bedroom, 3.5 bath house.
My past experience has been that responding, even in a calm adult manner, does nothing but incite the HOA president who is rather much a bully.
I have more vehicles than the HOA "likes" but there are no specific contraints in the covenants (there are 6 at my 5 bedroom home, sometimes 7). They are now asking me for "proof of ownership" for the vehicles in my house, two of which belong to live -in household caregivers for my invalid (sick) mother and a third to a part time caregiver. Their cars are older, and ugly but are functional and operate properly and are properly licensed. I am doing everything I can to ameliorate the situation but it is what it is.
As best I can tell, there is nothing in either my covenants or the county laws that prohibit unrelated individiuals from sharing the same home. When I bought the house I was specific that we would have live-in care but it did not become an issue until one of them got a new car and my daughter moved back in temporarily which increased the number of cars at our home.
We DO have enough vehicles we have to double park in the driveway but it is not a violation to do so. I am also being told my mother's wheelchair van is a "commercial vehicle" (it is a Dodge RAM van that was previously used by a transport company but has no lettering, and is just a normal full size handicap van) and that it must be removed.
They have sent me and other neighbors countless letters for mild violations yet every last member of the board has blatantly violated the same covenants and new construction has been recently allowed that is in clear violation.
My past experiences with these people are they are very rude (I guess you will have to take me at face value on that statement, but it is true). We are not the only ones facing inconsistent application of the "rules" and free lance interpretations by the board which allow the people they choose to violate covenants while creating new ad hoc standards for other people.
Comments on the following:
I feel that I would be better off to ignore the letters until they come to me with some specified statement of action on their part or the request is sent by their attorney.
Are there any specific requirements concerning unrelated people living in the same house in SC - We are family except for the two paid live in caregivers. My mother "does" have a right to have people in our home to provide for her physical care, doesn't she? She "does" have a right to own a wheelchair van at her residence, too, doesn't she? FWIW, there are 6 people living in a 5 bedroom, 3.5 bath house.
My past experience has been that responding, even in a calm adult manner, does nothing but incite the HOA president who is rather much a bully.
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