What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Pennsylvania
My neighbor is a spiteful, vindictive woman, who I fear is capable of being dangerous.
She is very upset about a property line issue, where she is wrong, and I have the survey to prove it. Basically, she thinks she owns the narrow walkway between our houses, and she doesn't. We both do. We each own the half closest to our houses with easement to walk on both sides (as would be necessary to get through, as I said, it's narrow).
I've tried discussing this with her, but she always gets mean and nasty. Generally, I ignore her, but she is getting nastier and nastier.
Last week, she got violent, throwing our garbage cans at us, and in our yard, and threatening to make them disappear. I called the police, (at her taunting, Go ahead, call them!) who listened to both sides, and looked at the survey and told her that she was in the wrong and is being very petty and is extremely hard to deal with.
Instead of accepting that she is in the wrong, she has escalated her behavior.
As soon as the police left, we were taking my girls to the renaissance faire, as planned, and she stood on her porch and, in front of my girls, said "I don't know why you even HAD kids, you shouldn't have had any, they are your 'rent-a-kids'" and saying I was a bad mother. I was VERY offended by this, which I am sure is what she wanted. Once I got the girls in the car, I responded angrily to her, not cursing and yelling, but angry.
When I got in the car, my husband and I agreed to not respond to her again, in any way.
When my husband is taking the garbage out, she whispers in the dark out of her window at him, says things like "hello, mr. weiner" (I know, this is very odd), and when she sees me, she spits out things like "little bored *****" (that was yesterdays comment)
She also does things, like putting a board with rusty nails sticking out of it down the middle of the walkway she is so upset over. Obviously, this is dangerous, especially to my kids.
I have tried ignoring her, reasoning with her, and calling the police and letting them mediate. She is only getting worse and worse, and I can honestly say that I think she is dangerous.
I don't know what else to do at this point. I've started taking pictures of the things she is doing, and I am trying to catch her in the act of verbally harassing us, is it legal to record someone without them knowing?
What would I do with this proof? Sue her? I don't want her money, I just want to go outside without being harassed, etc. I fear that suing her will only make her angrier, as obviously the having the police come did.
I'm at a loss. I don't even go outside unless I am going to my car anymore.
My neighbor is a spiteful, vindictive woman, who I fear is capable of being dangerous.
She is very upset about a property line issue, where she is wrong, and I have the survey to prove it. Basically, she thinks she owns the narrow walkway between our houses, and she doesn't. We both do. We each own the half closest to our houses with easement to walk on both sides (as would be necessary to get through, as I said, it's narrow).
I've tried discussing this with her, but she always gets mean and nasty. Generally, I ignore her, but she is getting nastier and nastier.
Last week, she got violent, throwing our garbage cans at us, and in our yard, and threatening to make them disappear. I called the police, (at her taunting, Go ahead, call them!) who listened to both sides, and looked at the survey and told her that she was in the wrong and is being very petty and is extremely hard to deal with.
Instead of accepting that she is in the wrong, she has escalated her behavior.
As soon as the police left, we were taking my girls to the renaissance faire, as planned, and she stood on her porch and, in front of my girls, said "I don't know why you even HAD kids, you shouldn't have had any, they are your 'rent-a-kids'" and saying I was a bad mother. I was VERY offended by this, which I am sure is what she wanted. Once I got the girls in the car, I responded angrily to her, not cursing and yelling, but angry.
When I got in the car, my husband and I agreed to not respond to her again, in any way.
When my husband is taking the garbage out, she whispers in the dark out of her window at him, says things like "hello, mr. weiner" (I know, this is very odd), and when she sees me, she spits out things like "little bored *****" (that was yesterdays comment)
She also does things, like putting a board with rusty nails sticking out of it down the middle of the walkway she is so upset over. Obviously, this is dangerous, especially to my kids.
I have tried ignoring her, reasoning with her, and calling the police and letting them mediate. She is only getting worse and worse, and I can honestly say that I think she is dangerous.
I don't know what else to do at this point. I've started taking pictures of the things she is doing, and I am trying to catch her in the act of verbally harassing us, is it legal to record someone without them knowing?
What would I do with this proof? Sue her? I don't want her money, I just want to go outside without being harassed, etc. I fear that suing her will only make her angrier, as obviously the having the police come did.
I'm at a loss. I don't even go outside unless I am going to my car anymore.