neighbor harrasing us

[warlocke]

Hello i just found this site via google. and hope it will provide some answers as to what to do.
i live in lees summit missouri.

i have a neighbor that we used to be friends with, well we started improving our house, new roof. deck, fence, paint on the house etc... well she got jealous and backstabbed us. this happend in aug of 06. another reason is that she owes us money but its not in writing, just verbal.

but shes been telling the whole neighborhood it seems, that we flip her off, cuss her out and all this other crap which we have done ONLY when she has done it to us.

heres copies of stuff i have posted on another forum to rant off about some of this stuff, some is in caps so please excuse that but i will edit out the language

this one was Thu Mar 01, 2007

OK A COP JUST CAME UP TO MY DOOR AND SAID THAT THE NEIGHBOR KIDS (TROUBLE MAKERS IN THE FIRST PLACE) SORRY FOR SPELLING IM MAD,

SAID THAT MY SISTER TRIED TO RUN THEM OVER, THEY WERE IN THE GRASS OF THE YARD!!!!!
THEY WANTED MY SISTER ARRESTED FOR THIS crap,

WE HAVE DONE NOTHING TO THESE GUYS, THEIR LIEYING TO THE COPS, AND THE COPS ARE BELIEVING THEM AND WONT LISTEN TO A dang WORD WE SAY, THEY SAY THAT WERE CUSSING THEM OUT, FLIPPING THEM OFF, TRYING TO HIT THEM, WHEN SHE HAS PULLED OUT IN FRONT OF ME WHILE I WAS DRIVING,

ok the others appear to have been deleted so thats all i have for now

but my neighbor, Debbie, has been backing out of her drive way, sees a car and stops (ok.) but sees its me and continues to back out. ive almost hit her 3 times because of this.

her son threw a rock or somthing at my sisters windshield and cracked it, called the cops, and the cop said that we cant do anything because his parents are saying he was in their sight the whole time.

then tonight my mom went outside with the dog to make sure he doesnt dig under the fence to get out (like he has been lately) but as soon as mom steps out on the back porch this happens

this is a quote from today

well today mom went out back to let the dog out to watch him, since he likes to dig under the fence. and debbie is the neighbor, started in on my mom from her yard. mom just said im not listening, blah blah. then she said somthing about "your son" to my mom, meaning me, and yesterday.

first off the ONLY thing i did yesterday was go to where my sister had a wreck to look at her car. then came home and went to bed because i was feeling like ****. well she said she was calling the cops because she has proof that we did somthing. well bout 10 min later a cop shows up at her house, but the next time we look the cops gone LOL

but then she called my house and left a voice mail stating that "we need to sit down and talk about the flipping off and cussing you do sonyia" sonyia is my mom, which the ONLY time we even do anything to her is when she says or does somthing to us first. weve been trying to forget about it and move on. but she goes on to say "if you dont sit down and talk with us i will take action" or somthing to that effect, the message cut out right then so im not sure.

does anyone have any advice as to what to do?

any help is appreciated.

EDIT
also the police in lees summit are no help either, anytime we have talked to the police they just say "dont drive on that street" which is kinda hard because the street their driveway is on is a major road into our neighborhood, and the street on the side of their house is where our driveway is.

but the cops never will listen to what we have to say they just assume that shes telling the truth and whatever.
but anytime we try to say anything the cops get in our face and tell us to stay off that street or leave them alone (which we do leave them alone)

[lcannister]

Grow up, move (you will never have another pleasant day as long as you both still live where you do) or seek legal counsel. Seems like everyone is doing their fair share of instigating!

[warlocke]

Originally Posted by lcannister

Grow up, move (you will never have another pleasant day as long as you both still live where you do) or seek legal counsel. Seems like everyone is doing their fair share of instigating!

we wish we could man, we couldnt sell this house for what weve put into it and what we owe lol. weve talked about it but cant afford it.