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I think I have a pyscho on my trail. 25 years ago, I met a girl while an exchange student at a college. I haven't seen her in over 20 years and the only time I've talked to her is when she calls me. Lately, she has been calling me relatively frequently, and talking more and more irrationally. my wife and I are both starting to worry about her mental stability since she just won't accept my refusals to engage in dialogue and my requests for her to stop calling me.
I am looking for any advice to avoid having this person show up on my doorstep one day with a gun or something. I used to feel sorry for her, but frankly my concern for my family outweighs any sympathy.
I never talk for more than about 3 minutes, never ask questions or engage in dialogue. I have explicitly asked her multiple times to not call me, but she does anyway.
About 10 years ago, I actually tried to counsel her as a former friend. it seemed then that she had some kind of breakdown -- she kept talking about about her father being out to get her, and I think she was homeless for awhile.
Now, she seems to be in some kind of mental breakdown state again. she has called me 3 times in the last month to rail about how some gift I gave her 20 years ago was stolen by someone in her family and today asked me out of the blue if I knew anything about a state prison.
Advice is appreciated and will be considered.
thanks all.
I think I have a pyscho on my trail. 25 years ago, I met a girl while an exchange student at a college. I haven't seen her in over 20 years and the only time I've talked to her is when she calls me. Lately, she has been calling me relatively frequently, and talking more and more irrationally. my wife and I are both starting to worry about her mental stability since she just won't accept my refusals to engage in dialogue and my requests for her to stop calling me.
I am looking for any advice to avoid having this person show up on my doorstep one day with a gun or something. I used to feel sorry for her, but frankly my concern for my family outweighs any sympathy.
I never talk for more than about 3 minutes, never ask questions or engage in dialogue. I have explicitly asked her multiple times to not call me, but she does anyway.
About 10 years ago, I actually tried to counsel her as a former friend. it seemed then that she had some kind of breakdown -- she kept talking about about her father being out to get her, and I think she was homeless for awhile.
Now, she seems to be in some kind of mental breakdown state again. she has called me 3 times in the last month to rail about how some gift I gave her 20 years ago was stolen by someone in her family and today asked me out of the blue if I knew anything about a state prison.
Advice is appreciated and will be considered.
thanks all.