Well, the alleged victim is trying to release my detention record (DA dismissed the case without court involved) to public in another state.
What detention record? And how did he or she obtain it?
If it is not from a
state criminal history record, or, if the victim is not a "person authorized by law to receive a record" (i.e. a court employee, law enforcement or other authorized entity) then he or she is not committing a crime.
In other words, if this non-government or authorized employee type person came into possession of your detention records then they would not be in violation of PC 11142 to release it. Likewise, if the record is not your CA criminal history record, then it is not a crime under 11142.