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diltibia
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Hi, I need some serious advice. I have a friend (in Arizona) who has a very strange family. Her monther re-married when she was 6, and her new stepfather has been having sex with her since she was 15, she just turned 22. He got her pregnant 3 years ago and they have a son. Her mother knows about it and says "it's meant to be." Her stepfather was an A+ sniper in Vietnam war. Two years ago she told her father that she met a boy who was really nice and she liked him, and he wanted to know his name and he said he was going to kill him. She was scared and wouldn't tell him.
Her father keeps the whole family in the house at all times. They very rarely leave the house (which is extremely small), and when they do the father takes them there, which is almost exclusively to school (she is attending community college to become a nurse). She lives with her two sisters (one older and one younger), her son, and her mother and step father. She is not allowed to use the phone. He has been having sex with her in an ongoing basis for almost 7 years.
About a month ago she told her mom and dad that she wanted to move out, and her dad cried for hours telling her not to leave, they were "meant to be together" (he believes they were married in a previous life), and then he said he would kill himself if she left.
She so badly wants to leave this family. She wants to move in with me (male), and I want her to as well. But it's not unlikely that her father could come to try to kill one or both of us if that happens. We couldn't flee the area any time soon because we're both in college, and we don't have the means to move anyway.
So, my question being, is it legal for a woman to kill a man, if she tries to stop him from having sex with her and he proceeds.
I have a camcorder, and what if I was video taping the event. As he started to initiate sex, she tried to stop him, he went on, she had a gun under the pillow or somewhere nearby, and shot him after he entered.
Would that be justifiable homicide? If not, what is another action that could be taken? Is it incest if the man is her step-father? Can she accuse him of statutory rape for having sex with her for three years before she was 18? Even though she's 22 now?
Please tell me what can be done about this. I don't think a restraining order would be very effective after she moved out. Can you kill someone who violates a restraining order?
I seriously think he would try to kill anyone who accompanied her moving out of this dysfunctional family.
What if she accused him of rape? Could he instantly go to jail? Would a video recording be necessary?
Thanks to Anyone who can give me some insight.
Her father keeps the whole family in the house at all times. They very rarely leave the house (which is extremely small), and when they do the father takes them there, which is almost exclusively to school (she is attending community college to become a nurse). She lives with her two sisters (one older and one younger), her son, and her mother and step father. She is not allowed to use the phone. He has been having sex with her in an ongoing basis for almost 7 years.
About a month ago she told her mom and dad that she wanted to move out, and her dad cried for hours telling her not to leave, they were "meant to be together" (he believes they were married in a previous life), and then he said he would kill himself if she left.
She so badly wants to leave this family. She wants to move in with me (male), and I want her to as well. But it's not unlikely that her father could come to try to kill one or both of us if that happens. We couldn't flee the area any time soon because we're both in college, and we don't have the means to move anyway.
So, my question being, is it legal for a woman to kill a man, if she tries to stop him from having sex with her and he proceeds.
I have a camcorder, and what if I was video taping the event. As he started to initiate sex, she tried to stop him, he went on, she had a gun under the pillow or somewhere nearby, and shot him after he entered.
Would that be justifiable homicide? If not, what is another action that could be taken? Is it incest if the man is her step-father? Can she accuse him of statutory rape for having sex with her for three years before she was 18? Even though she's 22 now?
Please tell me what can be done about this. I don't think a restraining order would be very effective after she moved out. Can you kill someone who violates a restraining order?
I seriously think he would try to kill anyone who accompanied her moving out of this dysfunctional family.
What if she accused him of rape? Could he instantly go to jail? Would a video recording be necessary?
Thanks to Anyone who can give me some insight.