What is the name of your state? California
I just received a civil harassment temporary restraining order from a former co-worker. We at one time were interested in each other romantically, but things didn't work out. She's moved on and I've moved on. She told me not to contact her in any way, but I didn't listen and contacted her. After we spoke on the phone and she hung up on me, I finally got the message. That was about two months ago. No direct contact since. I haven't seen her in person in 5 or so months.
It's been hard for me to move on since a lot of other stuff is going on in my life, so I created a blog (internet journal) at the beginning of this year. It's actually quite therapeutic and I've received anonymous words of encouragement. In my last email to my former coworker, I told her to check it out if she wants to know how i'm doing and stuff... I was trying to be friendly...
naturally, i considered her very important so she's in a lot of the entries. I imagine I will look like quite an obsessed and crazy guy at the hearing. They will most likely use my entries and personal thoughts against me. After getting the TRO, I naturally made all the entries private.
I'm looking to get a criminal defense lawyer. But is there any advice you guys/gals can give me on how to approach this matter? I made no threats or anything like that... just a lot of whining and words to inspire me to move on... I imagine she didn't like reading any of it, but she could have stopped reading at anytime right? Is that even a defense or just a waste of time?
thanks in advance...
i've definitely learned to keep my thoughts to myself now...
I just received a civil harassment temporary restraining order from a former co-worker. We at one time were interested in each other romantically, but things didn't work out. She's moved on and I've moved on. She told me not to contact her in any way, but I didn't listen and contacted her. After we spoke on the phone and she hung up on me, I finally got the message. That was about two months ago. No direct contact since. I haven't seen her in person in 5 or so months.
It's been hard for me to move on since a lot of other stuff is going on in my life, so I created a blog (internet journal) at the beginning of this year. It's actually quite therapeutic and I've received anonymous words of encouragement. In my last email to my former coworker, I told her to check it out if she wants to know how i'm doing and stuff... I was trying to be friendly...
naturally, i considered her very important so she's in a lot of the entries. I imagine I will look like quite an obsessed and crazy guy at the hearing. They will most likely use my entries and personal thoughts against me. After getting the TRO, I naturally made all the entries private.
I'm looking to get a criminal defense lawyer. But is there any advice you guys/gals can give me on how to approach this matter? I made no threats or anything like that... just a lot of whining and words to inspire me to move on... I imagine she didn't like reading any of it, but she could have stopped reading at anytime right? Is that even a defense or just a waste of time?
thanks in advance...
i've definitely learned to keep my thoughts to myself now...