Oh alright...you know the part where I said about the Mommy curse working? Well, I grew up in NY and pulled a similar stunt many moons ago when I was 16. My parents did everything possible, even trying to have his parents arrested for contributing to the deliquency of a minor (he was 20). Turns out they couldn't do anything. I was back in a week, but my parents went thru h*ll. I have no idea if NY laws have changed since then....but pretty much, what are you going to do? If you try to keep them away from each other in my opinion just fuels the fire. My son broke up with his little..errr..lets just say probation, AA in foster care,17 year old girl friend within a few weeks. He still lives away, but calls every day..I think he misses his Mommy. Get her the depro shot or pills before she leaves now or when she turns 18 (can't be that far away, by the time it gets to court well, you know)....I wish I knew what else to tell you..I know what you are going thru.
Good Luck Hon.
KAT