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lealea1005

Senior Member
What is the name of your state? MD but it happened in TX

Hi everyone....A couple of weeks ago, my daughter came home (off campus housing) to find her computer and charger had been stolen from her bedroom. She lives in a single family home owned by the parents of one of her housmates. Nothing else was missing from the house. Her bedroom is at the end of a hallway and the door was shut (there aren't locks on the bedroom doors).

She immediately reported it to the local police department who do a weekly sweep of the local pawn shops. The police also interviewed her housmates via telephone but will not come out to the house to speak with them in person. They tell her they don't get involved in "domestic disputes" :confused:

She strongly suspects one of the housmates has the computer in his room. He does not have a computer of his own and will sometimes borrow one from a housemate. She has confronted him about it and, of course, he denies any knowledge. He refuses to open his door more than a crack when speaking to the other housmates. He has been posting (proven via date stamps) on a website during times he does not have access to a computer. Also, this housemate has a history of taking other things without the knowledge of the owner (food, laundry detergent) and, until this point she was chalking it up to an inconsiderate housemate.

My questions are.....Is there anyway she can legally have that room searched? Does anyone have an idea how a theft can be considered a "domestic dispute"?

Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.....Thanks so much!
 
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CdwJava

Senior Member
From what you describe, the police cannot possibly compel a search or obtain a warrant with the current information.

This would not be a domestic dispute unless there is some piece to the puzzle that your daughter has left out. It is theft, but it is not the type of theft that is going to compel them to put a team of detectives on the job to start looking for suspects. They likely figure that it IS one of the housemates, but they lack any information to proceed further against them.

Your daughter can search the housemate's room, I suppose. Unless she can get one of them to cop to stealing the computer, she may just be out of luck unless it turns up.

- Carl
 

lealea1005

Senior Member
From what you describe, the police cannot possibly compel a search or obtain a warrant with the current information.

This would not be a domestic dispute unless there is some piece to the puzzle that your daughter has left out. It is theft, but it is not the type of theft that is going to compel them to put a team of detectives on the job to start looking for suspects. They likely figure that it IS one of the housemates, but they lack any information to proceed further against them.

Your daughter can search the housemate's room, I suppose. Unless she can get one of them to cop to stealing the computer, she may just be out of luck unless it turns up.

- Carl

Thanks Carl....I kind of figured we're SOL and I'll bet she actually uses the cable to lock her new computer to her bedframe! I just thought the officer would come to the house to talk to the housmates instead of just calling them.

She hesitates to go into his room when he's not home, especially since he will not allow her into the room when he is there.

Oh well.....guess it's one of those life lessons....albeit an expensive one. Thanks again.
 
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moburkes

Senior Member
Does your daughter have renter's insurance? If so, file a claim. If not, you MAY be able to file a claim under your homeowner's insurance ONLY IF your daughter is still considered a household member. She may not be, considering that she doesn't live in a dorm.
 

lealea1005

Senior Member
Does your daughter have renter's insurance? If so, file a claim. If not, you MAY be able to file a claim under your homeowner's insurance ONLY IF your daughter is still considered a household member. She may not be, considering that she doesn't live in a dorm.
Ohhhh...I knew you were going to ask that moburkes!! :eek: Our homeowners has a $2500 deductible and she doesn't have renter's insurance.
 

moburkes

Senior Member
Ohhhh...I knew you were going to ask that moburkes!! :eek: Our homeowners has a $2500 deductible and she doesn't have renter's insurance.
I didn't even look to see who wrote the OP. Sorry! Not having renter's insurance is NEVER a good idea. It would have cost her about $12/month. Yes, its an expensive lesson.
 

lealea1005

Senior Member
I didn't even look to see who wrote the OP. Sorry! Not having renter's insurance is NEVER a good idea. It would have cost her about $12/month. Yes, its an expensive lesson.
Yup...and in learning that lesson, we'll be looking into a policy....for both daughters! Does it cover dorm rooms too? Her new computer came with LoJack!! ;)
 

lealea1005

Senior Member
I would also look into installing a lock on her door. My first college room mate was beyond strange. :)

Thanks. This is the first time she's had problems with a roommate/housemate. The landlord (father of one of the housemates) installed a lock on her bedroom door last week. I thought it was a little strange that he didn't install locks on all the bedroom doors.
 

lealea1005

Senior Member
update

Over the weekend, my daughter caught the housemate online (she uses a replacement computer). Evidentially, he assumed she was gone for the weekend. She called the other housemate to make sure they did not loan him a computer. Then she called a friend of hers who came over and found, through the wireless network, that there was a 4th computer in use at the house (there should only be 3). They got the MAC code and confirmed it was her stolen computer.

She immediately called the landlords (the other housemate's parents) and police. The housemate locked himself in his room and refused to come out without "talking to a lawyer". She gave permision for the police to enter and requested they search the house. The police talked him into opening his door and they entered his room and found the stolen computer's charger under his bed. After searching the rest of the house, they found the computer hidden under stuff in a hall closet.
He was arrested, spent the night in jail, and will have a bail hearing this morning.

The police, who were nice enough to keep in touch with us, said the housemate was verbally abusive toward my daughter during the search. They advised my daughter to to go the courthouse this morning and request a protective order which, of course, she will do.

Come to find out, this guy was already on probation for another crime that got him kicked out of his former university. He had rebooted her computer and was downloading porn on it.

The landlords admitted to her they initially thought she was over-reacting, and have apologized. Although they've assured her he will not be permitted back in the house she will be staying with a good friend, at least temporarily, anyway.

Needless to say, she's pretty shaken up about the whole situation. She, naively, considered him a friend. Figured he was checked out by the landlords and was a long time firend of the other housemate...oh well, lesson learned.

Winter break cannot come soon enough!

Carl, moburkes, Ozark, thanks for the previous advice/comments.
 

moburkes

Senior Member
I didn't understand one bit what you were saying when you described HOW she and her friend figured it out (too old, I guess!), but I am SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad that she was able to get it back!!!! YAY! Good for her! Now that creepy roommate of hers is a nasty little pervert!

Way to go. Thanks for the update. Don't forget that renter's insurance!

I hope your daughter can soon start to feel comfortable in her home again. Good luck with that.
 

lealea1005

Senior Member
I didn't understand one bit what you were saying when you described HOW she and her friend figured it out (too old, I guess!), but I am SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad that she was able to get it back!!!! YAY! Good for her! Now that creepy roommate of hers is a nasty little pervert!

Way to go. Thanks for the update. Don't forget that renter's insurance!

I hope your daughter can soon start to feel comfortable in her home again. Good luck with that.

LOL! I don't undertand how they got it either, but whatever they did works for me!
 

BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
I didn't understand one bit what you were saying when you described HOW she and her friend figured it out (too old, I guess!), but I am SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad that she was able to get it back!!!! YAY! Good for her! Now that creepy roommate of hers is a nasty little pervert!

Way to go. Thanks for the update. Don't forget that renter's insurance!

I hope your daughter can soon start to feel comfortable in her home again. Good luck with that.
MAC address is the onboard address of the network card which is unique for every computer in the world. If you have an internet connection, you not only have an IP address, but also a MAC address.
If you want to see yours, and you are running windows, click on 'start' > 'run' then type cmd in the window. A dos window will appear. type inside that window ipconfig /all
it will be your physical address.
 

lealea1005

Senior Member
I didn't understand one bit what you were saying when you described HOW she and her friend figured it out (too old, I guess!), but I am SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad that she was able to get it back!!!! YAY! Good for her! Now that creepy roommate of hers is a nasty little pervert!

Way to go. Thanks for the update. Don't forget that renter's insurance!

I hope your daughter can soon start to feel comfortable in her home again. Good luck with that.

LOL! I don't undertand anything about computers or how they got it either, but whatever they did works for me! Thanks.
 

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