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eve2002
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in most states, what is the definition of "consent" in rape cases? i know most statutes state that if the victim is mentally incapacitated or asleep, and thus unable to give consent, then the act is rape. the first time i didn't say "no" (i still don't know why), but i was definitely drunk (blacking out, etc.). how drunk do you have to be to be mentally incapacitated? i didn't even think "no" in my head because i wasn't thinking anything. i was at the point that nothing phased me. (i had gotten cut on my face somewhere during the course of the night, and i didn't even realize i was bleeding or that it hurt until someone pointed it out to me.) i eventually asked him to stop and he didn't (or at least not right away). i passed out in the middle of intercourse. that was at night. in the morning i woke up and the guy was in the middle of having sex with me. he eventually stopped, but it took several minutes of saying "no." i think he stopped only when he realized i was actually awake. i don't know if it helps, but this was a person who i had never seen before who came into my room and started undressing me for reasons i still haven't been able to understand. . .