What is the name of your state? Texas
I had an incident this weekend where my live in boyfriend was very drunk and pushed me around. I wasn't physically hurt in the end, but my sister who was listening in on a cell phone, called the cops. He was belligerant and at one point telling me he was going to kill me and for obvious reasons, she called 911.
They arrested him for Assault of a Family member and, what they told me, was Threats to a family member. I found out today, they actually charged him with Terroristic Threats to Family members, though I'm not sure of the difference. He has been in jail since (Saturday night, it is now Monday evening) and I tried to call to see if the charges could be dropped. I know the Assault charge is something they will charge him with w/ or w/out me wanting to press charges, but the kicker is I'm also 4 mths pregnant. They issued a restraining order that says we cannot be in contact for 61 days after he gets out and the emergency proteciton order so that he is in for an additional 24 hrs After his bail is posted so they can contact me. (he has already served the required time for the assault charge-12 hrs)
This decision on whether or not I go through with pressing charges should be up to me since the actions were against me, right? The person I spoke to at the jail said they couldn't stop the charges right now, based on what they already knew, and they would have to investigate. This is not something that has happened before and something I'm sure wouldn't if he was to stop drinking. But based on the fact they know he said these things, and I'm not denying them, can they continue with the charges, even if I say I do not want to continue to press them? What can I also do about the restraining order?
Whether or not I stay with him, we are having a child together, and I can't shut him out of the baby's life even if I do shut him out of mine.
I had an incident this weekend where my live in boyfriend was very drunk and pushed me around. I wasn't physically hurt in the end, but my sister who was listening in on a cell phone, called the cops. He was belligerant and at one point telling me he was going to kill me and for obvious reasons, she called 911.
They arrested him for Assault of a Family member and, what they told me, was Threats to a family member. I found out today, they actually charged him with Terroristic Threats to Family members, though I'm not sure of the difference. He has been in jail since (Saturday night, it is now Monday evening) and I tried to call to see if the charges could be dropped. I know the Assault charge is something they will charge him with w/ or w/out me wanting to press charges, but the kicker is I'm also 4 mths pregnant. They issued a restraining order that says we cannot be in contact for 61 days after he gets out and the emergency proteciton order so that he is in for an additional 24 hrs After his bail is posted so they can contact me. (he has already served the required time for the assault charge-12 hrs)
This decision on whether or not I go through with pressing charges should be up to me since the actions were against me, right? The person I spoke to at the jail said they couldn't stop the charges right now, based on what they already knew, and they would have to investigate. This is not something that has happened before and something I'm sure wouldn't if he was to stop drinking. But based on the fact they know he said these things, and I'm not denying them, can they continue with the charges, even if I say I do not want to continue to press them? What can I also do about the restraining order?
Whether or not I stay with him, we are having a child together, and I can't shut him out of the baby's life even if I do shut him out of mine.