TwoHorseWoman
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Rhode Island
Several years ago, one of our neighbors allowed us to graze our horses on his land. We provided everything the neighbor needed to keep the horses confined to his field (step-in posts, electric tape fencing and the electricity to power it, water trough, etc.) When there would be areas (roughs or weedy patches) the horses didn't eat, my husband would bring over our lawn tractor and mow those areas.
During this time, the neighbor would often "borrow" various pieces of equipment (generally without asking) and would not return it unless we noticed it was gone and asked him for it. Frequently, the items would either be damaged or broken beyond repair, but the neighbor never offered to replace the items he ruined. I was quite irritated that my husband allowed this neighbor to do this, but my husband didn't want to "rock the boat" because of his allowing the horses to graze in his field.
Additionally, since the neighbor liked to go horseback riding, my husband allowed him to ride our mare. He was supposed to let us know when he planned to take her out, was not to ride her bareback (since she's in her 20s and bareback riding is very hard on a horse) and he was supposed to stay either on our side street or on our land. Naturally, the neighbor would not follow the rules, and would take the mare without letting us know (very scary when you check on the horses and find one gone since you don't know if the horse has escaped or gotten hurt in some way) would ride her on busy streets for hours, allowed his children to ride without permission (the liability issues on this terrified me,) rode her bareback and never offered to help out in any way for the privilege of using (and misusing) our horse. He also would take my saddle, bridle, halters and lead ropes and just throw them on the floor of his garage. I finally had to start storing things in the house so the neighbor couldn't get at them.
Despite many pleas on my part, my husband insisted that it was okay because of the grazing privileges until one day when I was taking my husband to a cardiologist's appointment, and we went past the neighbor riding our mare on the main street and whacking her with a stick. My husband FINALLY could understand why I was upset by the neighbor's actions, and went to talk to him about how our horse should be treated.
The neighbor knew he could ignore me, but with my husband now laying down rules, the neighbor knew that his "salad days" of unrestricted use of our horse were over. He became very angry and ordered the horses off his land and wanted nothing more to do with us. However, he returned only some of our equipment, and despite several pleas from my husband to return fence posts and fencing, refused to do so.
Several weeks ago, my husband foolishly decided to go and collect our fencing on his own. The neighbor returned while my husband was doing this, and positioned his SUV across the driveway to block my husband from leaving in our UTV. My husband started to go around the SUV on the land bordering the driveway when the neighbor rammed into the side of the UTV, buckling the door and side panel.
The neighbor then called the police and claimed that my husband had "destroyed" 105 feet of "his" electric tape and that my husband had "rammed" his SUV. The police arrested my husband and he has been charged with vandalism for trying to retrieve OUR property.
The criminal charges have not yet been resolved, but I feel fairly confident that the court will rule in our favor since all evidence points to the neighbor being the aggressor and the thief. The question, however, is what can we do to regain possession of our fencing and receive damages for what the neighbor did to the UTV? Are there any procedures, also, for calling him to account for lying to the police and filing false charges against my husband, which caused his arrest and our needing to spend much needed money for legal counsel to defend us?
Several years ago, one of our neighbors allowed us to graze our horses on his land. We provided everything the neighbor needed to keep the horses confined to his field (step-in posts, electric tape fencing and the electricity to power it, water trough, etc.) When there would be areas (roughs or weedy patches) the horses didn't eat, my husband would bring over our lawn tractor and mow those areas.
During this time, the neighbor would often "borrow" various pieces of equipment (generally without asking) and would not return it unless we noticed it was gone and asked him for it. Frequently, the items would either be damaged or broken beyond repair, but the neighbor never offered to replace the items he ruined. I was quite irritated that my husband allowed this neighbor to do this, but my husband didn't want to "rock the boat" because of his allowing the horses to graze in his field.
Additionally, since the neighbor liked to go horseback riding, my husband allowed him to ride our mare. He was supposed to let us know when he planned to take her out, was not to ride her bareback (since she's in her 20s and bareback riding is very hard on a horse) and he was supposed to stay either on our side street or on our land. Naturally, the neighbor would not follow the rules, and would take the mare without letting us know (very scary when you check on the horses and find one gone since you don't know if the horse has escaped or gotten hurt in some way) would ride her on busy streets for hours, allowed his children to ride without permission (the liability issues on this terrified me,) rode her bareback and never offered to help out in any way for the privilege of using (and misusing) our horse. He also would take my saddle, bridle, halters and lead ropes and just throw them on the floor of his garage. I finally had to start storing things in the house so the neighbor couldn't get at them.
Despite many pleas on my part, my husband insisted that it was okay because of the grazing privileges until one day when I was taking my husband to a cardiologist's appointment, and we went past the neighbor riding our mare on the main street and whacking her with a stick. My husband FINALLY could understand why I was upset by the neighbor's actions, and went to talk to him about how our horse should be treated.
The neighbor knew he could ignore me, but with my husband now laying down rules, the neighbor knew that his "salad days" of unrestricted use of our horse were over. He became very angry and ordered the horses off his land and wanted nothing more to do with us. However, he returned only some of our equipment, and despite several pleas from my husband to return fence posts and fencing, refused to do so.
Several weeks ago, my husband foolishly decided to go and collect our fencing on his own. The neighbor returned while my husband was doing this, and positioned his SUV across the driveway to block my husband from leaving in our UTV. My husband started to go around the SUV on the land bordering the driveway when the neighbor rammed into the side of the UTV, buckling the door and side panel.
The neighbor then called the police and claimed that my husband had "destroyed" 105 feet of "his" electric tape and that my husband had "rammed" his SUV. The police arrested my husband and he has been charged with vandalism for trying to retrieve OUR property.
The criminal charges have not yet been resolved, but I feel fairly confident that the court will rule in our favor since all evidence points to the neighbor being the aggressor and the thief. The question, however, is what can we do to regain possession of our fencing and receive damages for what the neighbor did to the UTV? Are there any procedures, also, for calling him to account for lying to the police and filing false charges against my husband, which caused his arrest and our needing to spend much needed money for legal counsel to defend us?