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sickofpsychos
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Oklahoma. I am being sent harassing letters and possibly being physically stalked by a woman who feels she was scorned by me over four years ago. I had an affair with her husband, whom I worked for. She has sent two letters to date, but states she will continue sending them indefinitely. In the letters, she accuses me of being responsible for every problem she has ever had. It is evident in the letters that there is severe mental problems here. There are no physical threats yet, just threats to keep contacting me via letter to harass me. The letters go on and on (over eight pages) about things that happened long ago that I can't change. She feels I have no remorse. I have chosen to ignore her letters because I've been told not to communicate with stalkers; that it only make it worse. She even said in her last letter that she would not accept any communication from me, but she will keep writing her letters and there's nothing I can do about it.
I'm wondering if this constitutes stalking under Oklahoma law. It has caused me much emotional distress, sleepless nights, worry, anxiety, fear for safety, etc. I'm worried about what she will resort to next if her letter-writing tactics don't get her the results she's looking for. It seems the only thing that would make this woman think I've paid my dues is if I blew my head off.
She is a school principal and her husband is an attorney. I have thought about writing her a certified letter stating that if the harassment doesn't stop, I will contact the school board, the Bar Association, the police, file a restraining order, etc. I don't want to escalate this situation if there is a simple way to put a stop to it. I don't want to have to ruin anyone's career, but I can't take this any more. I am truly sorry about my part in what happened four years ago, but I can't undo the harm. Please help and don't judge me morally. I have forgiveness from God for what I've done and it won't happen again.
I'm wondering if this constitutes stalking under Oklahoma law. It has caused me much emotional distress, sleepless nights, worry, anxiety, fear for safety, etc. I'm worried about what she will resort to next if her letter-writing tactics don't get her the results she's looking for. It seems the only thing that would make this woman think I've paid my dues is if I blew my head off.
She is a school principal and her husband is an attorney. I have thought about writing her a certified letter stating that if the harassment doesn't stop, I will contact the school board, the Bar Association, the police, file a restraining order, etc. I don't want to escalate this situation if there is a simple way to put a stop to it. I don't want to have to ruin anyone's career, but I can't take this any more. I am truly sorry about my part in what happened four years ago, but I can't undo the harm. Please help and don't judge me morally. I have forgiveness from God for what I've done and it won't happen again.