NeedAnAdvice
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What is the name of your state?
VA
I talked to someone over the internet and phone for about 4 months. She is 16, or 17 I believe and from another state, WA. I am 22, and I am from VA.
We had this sort of friendship, a shallow one if you ask me, just the casual "hello, how was your day? good.... how was school? good" type of thing.
I will admit that maybe a couple of times we might have said something that could be described as naughty, or sexual(a couple of sexual comments), it only happened a couple of times and it was not really too personal or explicit. However, I did not in any way intede to be with this girl, or get together with her, or even have anything with her for that matter it was just a simple friendship.
A couple of days ago her dad caught her talking on the phone with me when apparently she was not allowed to. The conversations weren't a big deal, but apparently the fact that she was talking to me even tho she was told not to was enough to enfuriate her dad.
Apparently, today, the dad went to the cops, and there is this one cop who keeps on calling me nonstop, he called about 50 times in a matter of minutes. The number seemed unknown to me so I did not pick up, he left 2 voice mails.
First voice mail says:
"Hello this deputy, something* from something* county WA. I am calling you regarding Lisa. Her parents want you to stay away, so I am here to talk to you about that. Her parents are not filing anything criminal against you, as of yet. So, it's of your best interest for you to call me. I just want to get some information about you. Again they are not filing anything criminal yet. So, call me. My number is something*."
Second voice mail says:
"Hey... Alex... call me when you can at something*"
something* = I was decided it was personal and not really necessary to put that information.
Again, the friendship I had with that girl was rather shallow. All she knows about me is my cell phone number, my email address and that my name is Alex. All I know is that her name is Lisa pretty much. I don't really know her address, or her full name or anything.
Where I really need advice is:
Can they get a warrent or something to come all the way here to talk to me and get my information based only on my cell phone number?
Would it really be of my best interest to call him and give him my information?
"They just want you away, they are not filing anything criminal, yet" Could this possibly mean they have grounds to file something criminal against me?
What exactly is the law on talking to someone, and differenciating a normal talk that might contain some sexual content from a talk that might be "criminal".
What should I do?
What are the chances something might happen from here?
Please give me an advice, as it is right now I am nervous and scared something problematic might occur.
VA
I talked to someone over the internet and phone for about 4 months. She is 16, or 17 I believe and from another state, WA. I am 22, and I am from VA.
We had this sort of friendship, a shallow one if you ask me, just the casual "hello, how was your day? good.... how was school? good" type of thing.
I will admit that maybe a couple of times we might have said something that could be described as naughty, or sexual(a couple of sexual comments), it only happened a couple of times and it was not really too personal or explicit. However, I did not in any way intede to be with this girl, or get together with her, or even have anything with her for that matter it was just a simple friendship.
A couple of days ago her dad caught her talking on the phone with me when apparently she was not allowed to. The conversations weren't a big deal, but apparently the fact that she was talking to me even tho she was told not to was enough to enfuriate her dad.
Apparently, today, the dad went to the cops, and there is this one cop who keeps on calling me nonstop, he called about 50 times in a matter of minutes. The number seemed unknown to me so I did not pick up, he left 2 voice mails.
First voice mail says:
"Hello this deputy, something* from something* county WA. I am calling you regarding Lisa. Her parents want you to stay away, so I am here to talk to you about that. Her parents are not filing anything criminal against you, as of yet. So, it's of your best interest for you to call me. I just want to get some information about you. Again they are not filing anything criminal yet. So, call me. My number is something*."
Second voice mail says:
"Hey... Alex... call me when you can at something*"
something* = I was decided it was personal and not really necessary to put that information.
Again, the friendship I had with that girl was rather shallow. All she knows about me is my cell phone number, my email address and that my name is Alex. All I know is that her name is Lisa pretty much. I don't really know her address, or her full name or anything.
Where I really need advice is:
Can they get a warrent or something to come all the way here to talk to me and get my information based only on my cell phone number?
Would it really be of my best interest to call him and give him my information?
"They just want you away, they are not filing anything criminal, yet" Could this possibly mean they have grounds to file something criminal against me?
What exactly is the law on talking to someone, and differenciating a normal talk that might contain some sexual content from a talk that might be "criminal".
What should I do?
What are the chances something might happen from here?
Please give me an advice, as it is right now I am nervous and scared something problematic might occur.
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