What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NEW JERSEY
On Jan 28 of this year (a non school day in East Brunswick due to snow), our across the street neighbor, came out of his house, walked to the sidewalk, took out his penis, put his hands on his hips and exposed his genitals openly while facing our house that has 4 big picture windows in the front and which are always open during the day, then after a while, he started to urinate. My husband and our daughter who is 9 years old, where getting ready to go out and fortunately my husband was looking through one of the picture windows when he saw our neighbor exposing his genitals and was able to stop our daughter just on time before she burst through the front door.
My husband then tried to approach him but the guy run to his car and left very quickly. We called the police and filed a report. A couple of detectives came a few weeks later and went over my husband’s testimony. As far as I know the police tried to get in touch with our neighbor several times without any success and just a couple of weeks ago, we received a court notice where my husband was summoned to serve as a witness on May 16 (yesterday). Yesterday my husband and I went to court as mandated and the prosecutor told us, that just because we didn't like what our neighbor did, it does not make it illegal. Then he went on and on, trying to convince us that:
1. We should have never brought this to court because is not illegal.
2. That the most our neighbor could get was a fine.
3. (After consulting with our neighbor’s lawyer) He said the best way to go, was to let our neighbor plead non-guilty and leave with a 6 months probation with the incentive that if he didn't do it again during that time, the charge would be dismissed.
He insisted so much on these 3 points that we ended up accepting it as the only solution, but while waiting in the court room, we kept feeling that it wasn’t right. So my husband spoke to the prosecutor again and told him, that we wanted him to be charged as guilty and nothing less. We were then told that we will be re-scheduled for another court date for a trial.
Please advice us on how to proceed. The noticed that was sent to my husband said he was to be a witness in the case of the State against our neighbor, is that the right way to handle this case? Do we need a lawyer? Does it even matter what we want? We really want our neighbor to be punished for what he did, especially because according to another neighbor this is not the first time he does something like this and I honestly think he was targeting our little girl.
Your advice will be greatly appreciated.
On Jan 28 of this year (a non school day in East Brunswick due to snow), our across the street neighbor, came out of his house, walked to the sidewalk, took out his penis, put his hands on his hips and exposed his genitals openly while facing our house that has 4 big picture windows in the front and which are always open during the day, then after a while, he started to urinate. My husband and our daughter who is 9 years old, where getting ready to go out and fortunately my husband was looking through one of the picture windows when he saw our neighbor exposing his genitals and was able to stop our daughter just on time before she burst through the front door.
My husband then tried to approach him but the guy run to his car and left very quickly. We called the police and filed a report. A couple of detectives came a few weeks later and went over my husband’s testimony. As far as I know the police tried to get in touch with our neighbor several times without any success and just a couple of weeks ago, we received a court notice where my husband was summoned to serve as a witness on May 16 (yesterday). Yesterday my husband and I went to court as mandated and the prosecutor told us, that just because we didn't like what our neighbor did, it does not make it illegal. Then he went on and on, trying to convince us that:
1. We should have never brought this to court because is not illegal.
2. That the most our neighbor could get was a fine.
3. (After consulting with our neighbor’s lawyer) He said the best way to go, was to let our neighbor plead non-guilty and leave with a 6 months probation with the incentive that if he didn't do it again during that time, the charge would be dismissed.
He insisted so much on these 3 points that we ended up accepting it as the only solution, but while waiting in the court room, we kept feeling that it wasn’t right. So my husband spoke to the prosecutor again and told him, that we wanted him to be charged as guilty and nothing less. We were then told that we will be re-scheduled for another court date for a trial.
Please advice us on how to proceed. The noticed that was sent to my husband said he was to be a witness in the case of the State against our neighbor, is that the right way to handle this case? Do we need a lawyer? Does it even matter what we want? We really want our neighbor to be punished for what he did, especially because according to another neighbor this is not the first time he does something like this and I honestly think he was targeting our little girl.
Your advice will be greatly appreciated.