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DesperateMomNC
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What is the name of your state? North Carolina
My son turned 19 the end of May, He has had a girlfriend the past 2 months. well last weekend out of the Blue the Police show up at our house, saying that there has been a complaint on our son that he has had sex with a 14 year old. We was just horrified, we didn't know what to think.
So naturally soon as the police left we run to where he was THE GIRLFRIENDS HOUSE, No one there knew anything of these complaints, well to make a long story short, the Father of the girl found out she had a boyfriend so hes the one who filed the complaint.
When all of us first met the girl she said she was "16 years old" so did the sister and the sisters boyfriend, they all went along with this story. The mother knew my son was seeing this girl. NOTHING was ever said!
And yesterday the Lt. showed back up and told my son that they now have warrants for his arrest on 2 counts of Statutory Rape but the Lt. did say this case is unreal & messed up, he just cant believe it, so he is giving my son until Monday to turn his self in.
The girl admitted to the Police at first that she lied, and told them YES they had sex on 2 different occasions and that she fully agreed to do so and would do it again if she had the chance.
But now that the Father got his hands on the girl he has really worked her over (the police even said that this girl is scared to death of him and that he was telling her things to say in front of them) So needless to say this girl is now saying that she didnt lie about her age, that it just never came up, because the father told her that if she admitted to lying to the police and the stand when it goes to court she will be in trouble and go to jail. So now I dont know what is going to happen when she has to tell the story again. And also the sister of the girl has clammed up, she won't admit that she lied about the sisters age, cause the mom is now standing to lose her daughter to the father, so naturally shes taking up for the mom. The mom on the other hand isnt pressing charges against my son, she really likes my son, but she won't admit to knowing they were seeing each other either........
I don't know what to do, I'm so lost and so is my son
Hes generally a good son, never been in trouble.
Could someone please give me some advice.
Thanks so much
in waiting
A torn apart Desperate MOM
My son turned 19 the end of May, He has had a girlfriend the past 2 months. well last weekend out of the Blue the Police show up at our house, saying that there has been a complaint on our son that he has had sex with a 14 year old. We was just horrified, we didn't know what to think.
So naturally soon as the police left we run to where he was THE GIRLFRIENDS HOUSE, No one there knew anything of these complaints, well to make a long story short, the Father of the girl found out she had a boyfriend so hes the one who filed the complaint.
When all of us first met the girl she said she was "16 years old" so did the sister and the sisters boyfriend, they all went along with this story. The mother knew my son was seeing this girl. NOTHING was ever said!
And yesterday the Lt. showed back up and told my son that they now have warrants for his arrest on 2 counts of Statutory Rape but the Lt. did say this case is unreal & messed up, he just cant believe it, so he is giving my son until Monday to turn his self in.
The girl admitted to the Police at first that she lied, and told them YES they had sex on 2 different occasions and that she fully agreed to do so and would do it again if she had the chance.
But now that the Father got his hands on the girl he has really worked her over (the police even said that this girl is scared to death of him and that he was telling her things to say in front of them) So needless to say this girl is now saying that she didnt lie about her age, that it just never came up, because the father told her that if she admitted to lying to the police and the stand when it goes to court she will be in trouble and go to jail. So now I dont know what is going to happen when she has to tell the story again. And also the sister of the girl has clammed up, she won't admit that she lied about the sisters age, cause the mom is now standing to lose her daughter to the father, so naturally shes taking up for the mom. The mom on the other hand isnt pressing charges against my son, she really likes my son, but she won't admit to knowing they were seeing each other either........
I don't know what to do, I'm so lost and so is my son
Hes generally a good son, never been in trouble.
Could someone please give me some advice.
Thanks so much
in waiting
A torn apart Desperate MOM