IN NEED OF ONES OPINION/LEGAL ADVICE

[bellestar]

O.K. BACK IN APRIL MY MAN WAS SENTANCE SEVEN MONTHS TO A YEAR IN PRISON. HE HAD AN ESCAPE CHARGE. NOW, IN SEPT THEY HAD HIM SIGN A PACKAGE TO COME HOME ON HOUSE ARREST. WE STILL HAVENT HEARD IF THEY ACCEPTED IT OR DENIED IT. SO YESTERDAY I CALLED HIS COUNCILOR AND ASKED IF THEY HAVE HEARD ANYTHING. THE COUNCILOR SAID NO, THE PAPERS HAVENT CAME BACK FROM THE WARDEN YET. O.K. FINE. NOW IT HAS BEEN A GOOD MONTH SINCE HE SIGHNED THEM. SO LAST NIGHT MY MAN CALLS ME AND TOLD ME THAT HIS COUNCILOR TOLD HIM THAT BECAUSE I CALLED AND ASKED ABOUT THE T.S. PACKAGE HE IS GOING TO PUT HIM BACK A MONTH. MEANING IF ANYTHING COMES IN SAYING HE CAN COME HOME HE WILL NOT INFORM MY MAN FOR A MONTH. NOW I CAN SEE THE COUNCILOR BEING UPSET IF I CONSTANTLY CALLED TO INQUIRE ABOUT THIS BUT THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IN THE HOLE 7 MONTHS THAT I EVEN SPOKE WITH HIM. AND I FEEL LIKE SEEING THAT I AM HIS SPONSOR AND NOT JUST ANYBODY HIS COUNCILOR IS BEING DOWN RIGHT MEAN. IS THERE ANY SUGGESTIONS. ANY ADVICE ON HIM COMING HOME OR ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN IN THIS SITUATION I WILL BE MORE THAN GRATEFUL FOR SOME INPUT.

 

[Ray H]

Cool it and wait. It's also possible "your man" isn't telling you the whole story, either.

This is general advice, NOT legal advice. I am NOT a lawyer. Your are NOT my client.

 

[bellestar]

thanks but waiting is the hard part. however i will take your clever abvice. thanx again.

 

[bellestar]

thanks but waiting is the hard part. however i will take your clever abvice. thanx again.

 

[bellestar]

G

 

[TRICIALYNN]

"STOP CRYING" iF HE DID SOMETHING ILLEGAL HE SHOULD BE IN PRISON. MAYBE YOU DON'T KNOW ALL THE FACTS. THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY.

 

[yolanda]

I don't have any advice, but support. If you read my situation(Time served, still incarcerated)that I posted a little while ago, you'll understand why I sympathize with you. Keep your head up, if need be contact an attorney in your area that offers free legal consultation. It is true that you may not have the whole story, but I know how you feel in wanting to trust your man and bringing him back home. Just stay positive and focused.

 

[bellestar]

THANK YOU ALL WHO RESPONDED AND AN UPDATE. HE WAS DENIED SO HE WILL BE INCARCERATED TILL APRIL. I REALLY FEEL LIKE THE PRISONS ARE SO SCREWD UP. HE DID SOMETHING SO PETTY. NOW THEY ARE GOING TO DISCHARGE HIM IN APRIL. HE WILL BE FREE AND CLEAR. THANX AGAIN