needhelp1212
Junior Member
I dont know if this is the right place for this thread, and I am really sorry if I am mistaken. I live in Ontario, Canada.
Here goes:
A boy I was involved with for a little over a year has been constantly harassing me. Even in the relationship he was both physicall and emotionally abusive. We recently broke up, and the day later he sent a relative of mine emails and pictures of me that were questionable, he also told my father about all of the things I had done. I understand if thats my own fault, for having not told him in the first place. However, that is just a background. This is where I need legal advice:
This boy knows where I am all the time. I haven't been speaking to him, ignoring all of his text messages, phone calls - anything to get him out of my life. When I go out with friends, he knows. He texts me asking why I was at a said location, or he asks me about the things I did that night. He wasn't there during any of those instances, so it is as if he is either following me personally, or getting someone else to give him information.
About a day ago he started to send me text messages asking me why I was at a certain location with a certain group of friends. I have proof of these text messages, and within an hour he texted me over 20 times and called my cell phone and my house over 30 times. Within the text messages he blackmailed for me to stop hanging out with those people, or else he would expose those pictures to everyone I know (through messages, online forums, etc). Then, he said that if I didn't comply to his requests, he would deal with me and "the people hang out with." He has a past of being violent, and he has even been arrested for violence, so I know for a fact that he is being serious when he says that he will act on these threats.
I need help. Is there ANYTHING I can do. A restraining order won't stop him. I am honestly in fear of both my safety, and the safety of others.
Here goes:
A boy I was involved with for a little over a year has been constantly harassing me. Even in the relationship he was both physicall and emotionally abusive. We recently broke up, and the day later he sent a relative of mine emails and pictures of me that were questionable, he also told my father about all of the things I had done. I understand if thats my own fault, for having not told him in the first place. However, that is just a background. This is where I need legal advice:
This boy knows where I am all the time. I haven't been speaking to him, ignoring all of his text messages, phone calls - anything to get him out of my life. When I go out with friends, he knows. He texts me asking why I was at a said location, or he asks me about the things I did that night. He wasn't there during any of those instances, so it is as if he is either following me personally, or getting someone else to give him information.
About a day ago he started to send me text messages asking me why I was at a certain location with a certain group of friends. I have proof of these text messages, and within an hour he texted me over 20 times and called my cell phone and my house over 30 times. Within the text messages he blackmailed for me to stop hanging out with those people, or else he would expose those pictures to everyone I know (through messages, online forums, etc). Then, he said that if I didn't comply to his requests, he would deal with me and "the people hang out with." He has a past of being violent, and he has even been arrested for violence, so I know for a fact that he is being serious when he says that he will act on these threats.
I need help. Is there ANYTHING I can do. A restraining order won't stop him. I am honestly in fear of both my safety, and the safety of others.