Is this prostitution?

[kinkykati]

What is the name of your state? CO

I am a college student desperate for quick money (tuition is due soon!!!), and I have temporarilly decided to exploit my body for some quick cash. I have a strict no touch rule, and have made a fair amount of money meeting men in person for coffee, going into the bathroom (alone), taking off my underwear, then going out and handing them to them. Also included are pictures of me wearing the underwear, sent via email.

I don't think have anything to worry about with that, but I have also gotten into having sex with a friend in front of a paying audience. Again, there is a no touch rule, but I do allow them to ejaculate on my breasts. I do not touch their penis in any way, or any other part of their body at any time during the "show".

Letting them ejaculate on my breasts seems to be rather iffy as far as being legal or not, but I'm not sure since I'm not actually touching them. Have I turned myself into a prostitute?

And yes, prostitution is bad, I'm going to ruin my life, shame on me, blah blah blah. Please no lectures on the morality of doing this; I don't intend to do this again, once I get out of my financial pinch.What is the name of your state?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

A hooker, a liar and soon to have a record. This is the cream of the crop my daddy warned me about.

 

[moburkes]

And how are you "not touching" if you're having intercourse? That's a new one on me!

 

[philtinner]

where do you perform ,i am always looking for new and exciting adventures

 

[acmb05]

What is the name of your state? CO

I am a college student desperate for quick money (tuition is due soon!!!), and I have temporarilly decided to exploit my body for some quick cash. I have a strict no touch rule, and have made a fair amount of money meeting men in person for coffee, going into the bathroom (alone), taking off my underwear, then going out and handing them to them. Also included are pictures of me wearing the underwear, sent via email.

I don't think have anything to worry about with that, but I have also gotten into having sex with a friend in front of a paying audience. Again, there is a no touch rule, but I do allow them to ejaculate on my breasts. I do not touch their penis in any way, or any other part of their body at any time during the "show".

Letting them ejaculate on my breasts seems to be rather iffy as far as being legal or not, but I'm not sure since I'm not actually touching them. Have I turned myself into a prostitute?

And yes, prostitution is bad, I'm going to ruin my life, shame on me, blah blah blah. Please no lectures on the morality of doing this; I don't intend to do this again, once I get out of my financial pinch.What is the name of your state?

Only have one thing to say to you.

Get a website, get a cam, find a hosting company, go into business. You make a heck of a lot more money.

 

[kinkykati]

And how are you "not touching" if you're having intercourse? That's a new one on me!

I said I'm having sex WITH A FRIEND and they are paying to WATCH. I'd honestly be having sex with him anyway, so why not make a little cash on the side by letting people watch? I am a bit of a voyour anyhow.

Also, I'm not trying to "troll" this site. This was a legitimate question, and I'm asking it so that I don't cross the legal line into becoming a hooker and getting in trouble. I have no interest in taking things further, I simply wanted to know if what I was doing was permittible by law.

Oh, I also tried the webcam thing first, but the stupid website rejected my application without telling me why and wouldn't answer my emails. I think it might have been because I didn't have "professional" photographs.

 

[HappyHusband]

Aw come on folks!
She is trying to pay for college.
Yes, it's illegal and she'll probably get busted soon, but it's not much different than all those college students working it over at the ti... I mean the gentlemen's clubs.
How many school teachers list that on their resumes?

 

[panzertanker]

You are paid for a sexual act. Touch or no touch, I would consider that to be prostitution. doesn't matter whether it is illegal or not, just how you feel about it. You are going to do it anyway.. "no lectures, etc", so why bother asking???

 

[kinkykati]

Yes, it's illegal

Thank you. That was all I wanted to know.

You are paid for a sexual act. Touch or no touch, I would consider that to be prostitution. doesn't matter whether it is illegal or not, just how you feel about it. You are going to do it anyway.. "no lectures, etc", so why bother asking???

Just curious... Do you consider strippers to be prostitutes? Porn actresses?

Anyhow, in this case I am putting the legality of the acts before the way I personally feel about them. So now that I know that it is indeed illegal, I intend to stop. I earned enough doing that to pay for my tuition anyhow, and I just started a "real" job fundraising for organizations like the Democratic party, Southern Poverty Law Center, ACLU, ASPCA, and other important, worthwhile causes.

[rant]
This thread has been interesting.. Why is it that the moment someone is publically associated with sex, they become despised? Stereotyped as a stupid slut that is going nowhere in life?

Lets say someone is good at sex. Regardless of how you feel towards it, it is a skill, right? If you're good with computers, you go into computer engineering. If you're good at design, you go into architecture. So if you are good at sex, why not use the abilities that you have to work with to make it through life? If you're in a financial pinch, are great at guitar and horrible at juggling, are you going to go out onto the street and juggle for tips?

Is the negative association caused by the way sex is a brainless act that any ditzy bimbo can perform? Then what about fast food workers? Those people that you see hanging up clothes at Walmart and Target? Are they to be despised? I'm sure most of you have worked some mindless job like that when you were young and being introduced to the working world. It's not something you run around and announce to the world, but though it isn't really a respectable job you don't get looked at as scum for doing it. It's those 40 year olds that you see working those jobs that get labeled as "losers". The ones that, instead of using the job as the first step on the ladder of life, sit down on it like it was a stool and wither away.

Sexual business is much the same way; you can use it for a short term financial solution, or you can make it your "career" and become what society looks down upon.

Has what I've done made me an airhead and a failure at life? No. I used it to enable me to go to college and get a degree so I don't have to do that anymore. I want to be a psychiatrist; I am good at understanding and helping people and fascinated by the mind.
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[moburkes]

Just curious... Do you consider strippers to be prostitutes? Porn actresses?


Lets say someone is good at sex. Regardless of how you feel towards it, it is a skill, right?

Its illegal. Period. Regardless of personal feelings. Stripping is not illegal. Being a porn start is not illegal. Prostitution is illegal.

 

[janimal]

OP posts: "Lets say someone is good at sex. Regardless of how you feel towards it, it is a skill, right? If you're good with computers, you go into computer engineering. If you're good at design, you go into architecture. So if you are good at sex, why not use the abilities that you have to work with to make it through life? If you're in a financial pinch, are great at guitar and horrible at juggling, are you going to go out onto the street and juggle for tips?"

This made me laugh out loud. Nude juggling might be more your style.

(Your long typed justifications for your behavior indicates you aren't as comfortable with what you are doing as you say.)

You are accepting money from men in exchange for allowing them to ejaculate on your breasts. To be outraged at the responses you received to posting this is - well - dumb. Did you honeslty expect to get answers like "Oh honey, that's great you are working so hard at paying for your education. good for you. No judgment, I don't think you're slutty or indecent, or a hooker, just using your natural given talents." No . What you are doing is your business, but when you post it on an internet forum, you make it others' business.

There are many other ways to earn money for college - that don't involve semen on your chest or getting arrested.

Wouldn't it be interesting if one day you are in practice as a therapist, and a former client comes in as a patient. Would love to be a fly on the wall for that.