My parents found out that my boyfriend and I where having sex, he is 21 and I am 16. They put a restraining order on him. The order is for 3yrs. My question is can I write him if he doesn't contact me back? And Can I take the order off once I am 18? I will be 18 in 1yr. and 2 months...Please help!! How do I go about taking that order off in a year??