What is the name of your state? Ohio
I have an ex-business associate that I think may be violating the anti-stalking laws, at least from what I've read on the USDOJ site. The associate is male, and I am female, we are both married (to other people!). It is fairly widely known that this individual has had romantic feelings for me, although he has never admitted it in writing. He went so far as to hire my mother to work for him after I left, and has pursued a relationship with her as well, and constantly tries to stay on top of my actions. He has broken a wide variety of employment and tax laws in his business, all of which I have pointed out to him. He continually tries to find ways to initiate contact with me - first via phone, until I blocked his number. Lately, he has been emailing me. In one of his latest tyrades against me, he indicated that he knew something about my private life, which he could only have found out by searching internet records - something again, which is widely known that he does. He spends hours upon hours finding things out about people, for no apparent reason. I responded to a couple of his latest emails requesting and then finally, demanding that he stop contacting me, even pointed out the page on the USDOJ website about stalking, and using the internet to harass people. It still continued. Today I received another email full of false accusations and lies - I can't tell anymore if this man is delusional or just a liar. The things he accuses me of are somewhat trivial, but angers me because of the lack of truth, and the fact that my mother still works for him, and I am certain he is spreading that filth to her as well.
What can I do here? I don't have records from all the previous times he contacted me, although plenty of other people in my life were here when they happened, and many have had encounters with him themselves. I did, however, save all the emails I rec'd yesterday, including my replies demanding he stop. There are plenty of other instances of his harassment, but I never retained any proof, as I was not aware of the depth of his possible stalking. Don't the anti-stalking laws cover electronic stalking? Prodding into someone's personal life using the internet for no reason? Doesn't that cover email harassment as well? Don't my requests for him to stop count for anything? I'm very frustrated, and while not entirely fearful, am somewhat concerned. More than anything, it is a waste of my time and energy and I want it to stop.
Any advice?
Thank you.What is the name of your state?
I have an ex-business associate that I think may be violating the anti-stalking laws, at least from what I've read on the USDOJ site. The associate is male, and I am female, we are both married (to other people!). It is fairly widely known that this individual has had romantic feelings for me, although he has never admitted it in writing. He went so far as to hire my mother to work for him after I left, and has pursued a relationship with her as well, and constantly tries to stay on top of my actions. He has broken a wide variety of employment and tax laws in his business, all of which I have pointed out to him. He continually tries to find ways to initiate contact with me - first via phone, until I blocked his number. Lately, he has been emailing me. In one of his latest tyrades against me, he indicated that he knew something about my private life, which he could only have found out by searching internet records - something again, which is widely known that he does. He spends hours upon hours finding things out about people, for no apparent reason. I responded to a couple of his latest emails requesting and then finally, demanding that he stop contacting me, even pointed out the page on the USDOJ website about stalking, and using the internet to harass people. It still continued. Today I received another email full of false accusations and lies - I can't tell anymore if this man is delusional or just a liar. The things he accuses me of are somewhat trivial, but angers me because of the lack of truth, and the fact that my mother still works for him, and I am certain he is spreading that filth to her as well.
What can I do here? I don't have records from all the previous times he contacted me, although plenty of other people in my life were here when they happened, and many have had encounters with him themselves. I did, however, save all the emails I rec'd yesterday, including my replies demanding he stop. There are plenty of other instances of his harassment, but I never retained any proof, as I was not aware of the depth of his possible stalking. Don't the anti-stalking laws cover electronic stalking? Prodding into someone's personal life using the internet for no reason? Doesn't that cover email harassment as well? Don't my requests for him to stop count for anything? I'm very frustrated, and while not entirely fearful, am somewhat concerned. More than anything, it is a waste of my time and energy and I want it to stop.
Any advice?
Thank you.What is the name of your state?