9 years later
whew. maybe a little late for input now but: "Get an attorney" is not advice. That is instruction and it's in no way helpful. Obviously the #1 purpose of asking a question in an online forum about such a thing is to AVOID traditional avenues of help like paying out the eye for an attorney. Rather than taking offense to the repeated request for assistant advice and then reiterating your non-advice, perhaps you should have seen it in yourself to fulfill your own purpose on the forum; helping. Why post at all if what you are posting is in absolutely no way helpful to anyone anywhere for any reason. hm?