What is the name of your state? UT
My ex husband recently died and my three adult children are trying to sort out the mess he left. He oldest has been designated by probate court as the person to handle the affairs. There was a 401 K that did not list any beneficiaries and my oldest is concerned that when it is handed off to him to disperse between the other children that some or all of the other children might not make the necessary tax provisions on the money and then he will become liable for it.
What do you suggest?