What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
My mother recently passed in February without a will. I have four siblings and during a conference call (a few days ago) it was decided to appoint one of the brothers as Administrator. I am becoming concerned because during the conversation it was revealed that our sister had contacted our mother's retirement program (CalPERS) two days after she passed. There was a question on the form that she wanted an answer to and she asked it during the conference call. After the call, I started wondering why my brother (who wants to be the Administrator) didn't ask any questions about the documents our sister received from CalPERS. He didn't ask why she had them or what they contained. I'm wondering if I should ask to be named co-Administrator as full disclosure does not seem to be a concern.
My mother recently passed in February without a will. I have four siblings and during a conference call (a few days ago) it was decided to appoint one of the brothers as Administrator. I am becoming concerned because during the conversation it was revealed that our sister had contacted our mother's retirement program (CalPERS) two days after she passed. There was a question on the form that she wanted an answer to and she asked it during the conference call. After the call, I started wondering why my brother (who wants to be the Administrator) didn't ask any questions about the documents our sister received from CalPERS. He didn't ask why she had them or what they contained. I'm wondering if I should ask to be named co-Administrator as full disclosure does not seem to be a concern.