rhiannon65
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What is the name of your state? Illinois
My father passed away last month and my sister & I are not getting any communication from his widow. (Our mother is deceased also.)
She (his wife) refuses to answer the phone and the one time she did pick up (must not have realized it was me), she hung up on me when I tried to ask her about Dad's things, if he had a will, etc.
She spent the entire wake & funeral bad mouthing everyone (me, my sister, my grandmother - dad's mom) to anyone who would listen, but then in the next breath talked about how her 'fighting days were over'. (I have no idea what she meant by that)
Anyway, we (my sister & I) know he had several pieces of artwork, animal mounts and firearms (he hunted quite a bit before he remarried) and his wife didn't care for that hobby so he put it all in storage. I pretty sure he didn't have a will (I have called the Cty clerks office where they lived and she hasn't filed anything either), but my sister & I are just looking for a little courtesy from her to be able to go through the things of his that she does't (or didn't) want before she tosses it or let's her friends take it. I think he even had reel-to-reel home movies of us kids, that no one would want but us.
Any suggestions? We don't even know if he had life insurance - she just refuses to speak to us.
Thanks!
My father passed away last month and my sister & I are not getting any communication from his widow. (Our mother is deceased also.)
She (his wife) refuses to answer the phone and the one time she did pick up (must not have realized it was me), she hung up on me when I tried to ask her about Dad's things, if he had a will, etc.
She spent the entire wake & funeral bad mouthing everyone (me, my sister, my grandmother - dad's mom) to anyone who would listen, but then in the next breath talked about how her 'fighting days were over'. (I have no idea what she meant by that)
Anyway, we (my sister & I) know he had several pieces of artwork, animal mounts and firearms (he hunted quite a bit before he remarried) and his wife didn't care for that hobby so he put it all in storage. I pretty sure he didn't have a will (I have called the Cty clerks office where they lived and she hasn't filed anything either), but my sister & I are just looking for a little courtesy from her to be able to go through the things of his that she does't (or didn't) want before she tosses it or let's her friends take it. I think he even had reel-to-reel home movies of us kids, that no one would want but us.
Any suggestions? We don't even know if he had life insurance - she just refuses to speak to us.
Thanks!