johnsalter
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? NY
My grandfather just died, after having been taken care of for years by my uncle, who has a drinking problem and terrorized my grandfather and kept everyone else in the family away. More importantly now, he spent or took most of my grandfather's assets, including money and stock, and either squirrelled it away or spent it on himself. Now I am named co-executor with my uncle. I cannot afford a lawyer to fight with my uncle, but can I legitimately ask the attorney handling the probate (hired by my uncle) to find out what happened to my grandfather's estate? If the money was squandered, is there any way to recover it, realistically? I mean, really, if the mone is gone, is it likely that suing my drunk uncle will ever recover anything? Would my best course of action be to let it go? Thanks, J Salter
My grandfather just died, after having been taken care of for years by my uncle, who has a drinking problem and terrorized my grandfather and kept everyone else in the family away. More importantly now, he spent or took most of my grandfather's assets, including money and stock, and either squirrelled it away or spent it on himself. Now I am named co-executor with my uncle. I cannot afford a lawyer to fight with my uncle, but can I legitimately ask the attorney handling the probate (hired by my uncle) to find out what happened to my grandfather's estate? If the money was squandered, is there any way to recover it, realistically? I mean, really, if the mone is gone, is it likely that suing my drunk uncle will ever recover anything? Would my best course of action be to let it go? Thanks, J Salter