echogirl3142
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What is the name of your state? Massachusetts,
i posted the other day regardings my fathers death/estate. Because I am the one handling the estate, soon to be appointed administrator, while changing the name on my parents mortgage, i was going through his papers. i found an SBLI life insurance policy, i asked my mother about it and she told me he got it when he was young, and that he had been paying on it since then, ( i have paid receipts thru 2002). when i called to ask (with my mother right there next to me) they told me that in fact it was still active and that it had already been claimed.. that the beneficiary had already called and there was a form sent out which needed a signature and documentation. The problem is that 1. they won't tell us who the beneficiary is or any other information on the policy, and 2. my dads' "mistress" has impersonated my mother/grandmother and me on numerous occasions(my parents are still married) 3.my family is out to get me. so to say that this all makes me rather nervous is the least. is there any way that we can find out who the true beneficiary is, if the forms were sent to the right person, etc, (i would actually be more concerned that his girlfriend takes the money away from my grandmother who i believe is 1 of the 2 possible people as a beneficiary)? i don't wanna see someone in my family get screwed out of a life insurance policy because his "mistress" is such a cold hearted person.
i posted the other day regardings my fathers death/estate. Because I am the one handling the estate, soon to be appointed administrator, while changing the name on my parents mortgage, i was going through his papers. i found an SBLI life insurance policy, i asked my mother about it and she told me he got it when he was young, and that he had been paying on it since then, ( i have paid receipts thru 2002). when i called to ask (with my mother right there next to me) they told me that in fact it was still active and that it had already been claimed.. that the beneficiary had already called and there was a form sent out which needed a signature and documentation. The problem is that 1. they won't tell us who the beneficiary is or any other information on the policy, and 2. my dads' "mistress" has impersonated my mother/grandmother and me on numerous occasions(my parents are still married) 3.my family is out to get me. so to say that this all makes me rather nervous is the least. is there any way that we can find out who the true beneficiary is, if the forms were sent to the right person, etc, (i would actually be more concerned that his girlfriend takes the money away from my grandmother who i believe is 1 of the 2 possible people as a beneficiary)? i don't wanna see someone in my family get screwed out of a life insurance policy because his "mistress" is such a cold hearted person.